I've been called handsome many times by both women and men, people say I had many girlfriends (although I wish I had more), some friends call me a chad probably because I have a fair amount of confidence and dominance. However I have noticed that many women overlook me at parties and social settings, don't initiate, don't show interest when I approach them and I am almost never able to hook up casually, probably because I look average. Although I've had many girlfriends, being single is painful for me because I am not able to "pull" as easily as some other dudes. Therefore I am always looking for relationships to fulfill my needs and it's more difficult now because I have become more selective when it comes to serious relationships. I want to finally settle with someone.
How to maintain confidence when you're aware you're not particularly good looking?
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Get successful in other areas of your life and people will notice. How ugly or pretty you are goes away that time.
Well if you been handsome before I dont why you wouldn't have confidence in yourself. I never get called beautiful very much myself. I feel like guys see me as a piece of ass most of the time. I've been called beautiful 2 times in the last 7 years. So dont feel bad.
Try your best to stay focused on the positive.