I look at it this way
As example someone is "involved" with 4 people. By this I mean either talking or initial dating.
That person has to split their time between work or studies & these 4 people.
Eventually the best of those 4 will get fed up with that person's inability to give them time / put an effort (similar effort) into the relationship so the best will leave & all that person is left with is the dregs that can't get any better themselves.
You should only ever engage one at a time, or not at all. This isn't some product line you're getting off the shelf and testing. This is your life, and the life of others.
No wonder you're struggling.
u This is not the bachelor. I concentrate on one woman.
Variety is the spice of life. More is always better.
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You nailed it. Most men and women alike are talking to multiple people at a time, more than they can handle, and they end up losing out on all of them.
I agree with you.
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