I was supposed to be seeing the guy I'm dating tonight, but since his mum is visiting he basically asks her, her plans before he plans anything with me. It's like I'm a last thought.
Anyway, he said he would let me know before 5pm, then he said 7pm when gets home and then he still hadn't told me till 9pm. He invites me over but asks if i will be good company as i was annoyed at this point... anyway he says he doesn't want to go to bed early but I have to be up for 9ma.
... we agreed I would come anyway. So I get in my car ready, and he messages again to tell me to leave it. He then keeps sending me messages like I'm tired I can't think about this now when I pull him up on it all. Contradicting that he wanted to stay up late.
This guy is a pain in the arse when it comes to organising a simple meet up.
He leaves everything last minute and my patience and anxiety is being affected. I honestly can't really tolerate his BS any longer but anytime I bring it up he says 'I'm tired can't talk rn' or he has a headache. He makes me feel like I'm being unreasonable and it's really passing me off.
How can I pull him up on his BS in the politest way. Because whilst I'm furious, I want to get my point across in a non cray way (likely he will gaslight me as per)
Anyway, he said he would let me know before 5pm, then he said 7pm when gets home and then he still hadn't told me till 9pm. He invites me over but asks if i will be good company as i was annoyed at this point... anyway he says he doesn't want to go to bed early but I have to be up for 9ma.
... we agreed I would come anyway. So I get in my car ready, and he messages again to tell me to leave it. He then keeps sending me messages like I'm tired I can't think about this now when I pull him up on it all. Contradicting that he wanted to stay up late.
This guy is a pain in the arse when it comes to organising a simple meet up.
He leaves everything last minute and my patience and anxiety is being affected. I honestly can't really tolerate his BS any longer but anytime I bring it up he says 'I'm tired can't talk rn' or he has a headache. He makes me feel like I'm being unreasonable and it's really passing me off.
How can I pull him up on his BS in the politest way. Because whilst I'm furious, I want to get my point across in a non cray way (likely he will gaslight me as per)
