How to I get that spark/ get his attention back and also get myself back like self esteem and confidence?

[Beccaasaar]

I Have this crush and we've been friends forevverrr and he knows me 100% and lately my self esteem had been low and my confidence, and I just feel so blah and lately he hadn't been texting me much or hanging out and I kinda feel like I'm losing him bc I'm at my low what is a great way to get his attention back and be like we use to, and I also feel like his attention is somewhere else. Also on a side note I also have insecurities and I realize it's from being at my low and I think just be being at my low and being insecure is driving him away. But what's a good way to get his attention but also bring my energy and self esteem back

[Mansearching]

There is no reason you should be down and out. You're a beautiful woman. Seen both profile pics.

He may have a girlfriend, dating someone or having family member time. He'll answer when he gets time. If he's a true friend he wouldn't leave you while in a funk. But you got to get out of yours yourself. No one can help you but you. They can support you in the changes you make. Tbh.. in all seriousness, I won't hold back and not trying to sound mean:

PUT YOUR BIG GIRL PANTIES ON!!!

[Stevefiveo]

Buy some sexy lingerie. Ask him to come over and see you in the new lingerie. That line works on me every time. ;). Good luck.

[In_Trance]

Jesus... what is this?
Do you even talk to him?
Does he know you exist?

[Beccaasaar]

Yes I talk to him, and yes he knows I exist, he had feelings for me then he kinda just disappeared prob bc I drove him away

[In_Trance]

So... what is this?
You don't like each other that much if nothing happened
Move on