How would you react if your date offered you drugs?

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Not pot or similar, but hard drugs such as cocaine and heroin. I dabbled with the former when my girlfriend at the time introduced it to me, but I used it occasionally and I never got addicted to it, so I managed to quit cold turkey. Said girlfriend quit too and although some of my friends still use it, if me or her get it offered we refuse.

JustinTheGreat · Accepted Answer

If it was a first date or shortly after meeting, I’d be a little scared lol. If they’re just whipping out hard drugs in front of people they barely know, then I would think that’s a sign that they might have an addiction or use it all the time.
but I’ve experimented with drug use before 🤷‍♂️ Nothing as hard as heroin but I’ve done coke here and there. Haven’t touched it in a year or two but not gonna lie, I would do it again.
but it’s something I’d only be comfortable doing with someone I know well. I don’t trust people enough to just take it from a random.

I’ve really only done coke with one of my friends because he’s been using it for a while. I know he tests his drugs and gets it from a dealer he knows well so I trust him.
we even went to a little party at his dealers house lmao. That was fun.

WindAtMyBack · Accepted Answer

That would be a pretty big negative. It might end the date then and there. Or there is a chance I'd finish the date and never go out again.

If it was only pot, it wouldn't end the date, but I doubt if we'd go out again. Offering it to me on a first date is not a sign of a casual user.

Getting sloppy drunk would be a deal breaker. Any drinking at all would make me watch closely to see if she had it under control.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I took a bunch of science classes in college and I know what all that stuff does to your poor brain. I wouldn't do it and I would end things.

I actually was talking to this guy who I thought was a normal computer science nerd until he showed his true colors eventually.

He was obsessed with that show Mr. Robot and the main character would do heroine all the time. He revealed that he did meth, acid, shrooms, cocaine and some other ones.

I remember he said he would buy it off the dark web and he said those drugs would probably be laced with other stuff but he did them anyway.

He wanted to do heroine, he was inspired by Mr. Robot and he was like "We should do it together." And I ran away so quick and had to change my number since he started harassing me.

CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

Nah I'm currently with a guy who is very alcoholic and even then haven't drunk once myself despite making tiny jokes here and there when I'm having a mentally difficult time like jokingly telling him "perhaps I should have my first ever drink now".

If I was offered drugs I'd run the other way.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If it happened now, I would refuse and soon thereafter part ways with that girlfriend.

Guy13 · Answer

Not Wells’s that would be end of date.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

My ex was a functional drunk. I slowly learned, the hard drugs (cocaine) he took as well. At that point, I knew he wasn’t for me. But I did get into his world a bit. I met the drug dealers he got his stuff from. I saw him use it.
I only tried weed…it didn’t do anything for me. So that was that. I have no tolerance with alcohol so that wasn’t fun.
he was a decent guy otherwise…I wished him luck.
I am happily married to my second husband now and he is great with me and my kids.

Kaneki05 · Answer

I don't get addicted to stuff, so I could do it then quite like you. But I doubt I would she would have to be pretty damn perfect to convince me. Meanwhile I would be ask her to stop doing it because I don't want her to die on me due to it.
One of my ex's did it off and on but I wasn't offered it at any point.

And I know you said not pot or the drugs that should be legal if not already but just for extra to the opinion yes I would happily do those.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I, too, "dabbled" with hardcore drugs once in a while due to my adventurous nature.

Fortunately, I never got hooked on any of them.

Although none of 'em were ever offered to me or present during courtship dates, I would have opposed to anyone possessing such drugs in my presence even though I already experienced them.

Jessica405 · Answer

Walk away right then! I do not ever wnt to be associated with a narcotic taker.

TrueConfection · Answer

I'd get away from him as fast as my little feet could carry me.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

If she offered me junking cocaine I would tell her, “ah. Well being the absolute Giga Chad I am, I’m gonna have to enthusiastically reject this offer. In the meantime, why don’t you co-caine a ducking education back in school and maybe we’ll talk, but until you have this Torosaurus crap sorted out, you can talk to my hands because my face isn’t ducking listening” *goes home to hang out with cats and have a Capri Sun while playing games with friends like a ducking Giga Chad*

Lionman95 · Answer

I´d reject at least it´s a redflag because I don´t know what they put in there. Generally I don´t do drug so I don´t want to start doing it in a surrounding I don´t trust or know well enough to not mistreat me.

Sunssong · Answer

I'd say  no  and it would be the last date. by the way this is a good idea if you want to get rid of somebody. People only like people based off of what they believe to be true about them.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I'd try some coke, but I'm not doing heroin.

I'm already heavily addicted to Kratom, which is the shit some people use to get off heroin.
I know if I did it, that would be the end. Opiates are the greatest feeling ever

designer1 · Answer

They wouldn’t be my date no more, personally. Hard drugs are a quick and easy path to self-destruction. Doesn’t take much.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

You escaped the trap. Good on you and her for pulling out of it without extreme drama... although I bet there was some.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s legal, so you’re good in those regards. But no, I wouldn’t. The mood swings are not enjoyable to be around. Their ability to reason and their irrational concepts, it’s not for me.

Juxtapose · Answer

Cocaine might be alright for just a few tries but never, ever touch heroin.

Miristheiss · Answer

I assume you mean cocaine, heroine or something on that realm and not an Advil?  I would have ended the date.

FreyaRed · Answer

I would build fat long line at middle of the table, sniff it, drink half bottle vodka and would go to dance party with random people after I said this guy to f... off.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

I say nein to too much cocaine and to heroin, but might do a bit of coke, if it really is minuscule. I mean, they used to put coke in Coke! Too much of practicality anything is not good.

alice55 · Answer

I would say no continue the date and never ghost them.

Part2603 · Answer

I'm old. At this point I'd say, "Fuck it. New experience."

melanieeeB · Answer

"Uhmm thanks but I'm not into toxicating myself, alsoo this is not going to work out and I have to go"

Still-alive · Answer

locate the nearest exist and escape from there

AsaKyo · Answer

I would leave on the spot and never speak to him again  Idc if it's cannabis, heroin, shrooms, etc.. cause' they're all disgusting

humanearth · Answer

I would leave instantly. Even pot is a deal breaker with me Drug and dope free is for me

Unit1 · Answer

I'm in. Not gonna be addicted to it tho.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

I'd end whatever we're doing and tell them I'm out. I don't need to add to my problems.

Adam1978 · Answer

I would end the date right there. I don't do drugs and I don't date addicts or dealers.

Anonymous · Answer

Weed yes. Anything other and I'm out, I wouldn't want to date an addict

tinydiva1991 · Answer

Everyone is so up tight ! Lol, live a little !

Chrystalynw1 · Answer

I’m taking them bitches.. lol why would I be rude. But I can’t do meth or crack or anything like that that’s to far lol

Quackthulu2 · Answer

By walking out on the date and blocking them.

Beatrix7 · Answer

say no i do smoke w_ _d and nothing else other drugs no chance ure ok

Anonymous · Answer

Being someone whose curious, I would try it once just to see how it feels. But I would hope my partner is only trying it once as well or doesn't do it very often.

exitseven · Answer

That would be the end of it for me. See ya later.

ARWINGx1 · Answer

Basically... <tries to imitate the "Oh he-- no!" meme>

Christoff92 · Answer

Like that 🤣😜

Agape93 · Answer

She's tried, I'm not interested

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Even pot, alcohol and cigs are enough to make me ditch her. I have a zero drug tolerance.

annabananna · Answer

I would say no Thankyou and it would be the last date.

Anonymous · Answer

Might try coke but nah not heroin (not crack or meth either)

Elenafairchild20 · Answer

Hell to the NO!  No one has offered me that and I'm glad because drugs just make u lose yourself as people u take drugs become addicted to it and go crazy in a bad way

Sahsiyet · Answer

I'm sorry, but I wouldn't even be friends with a drug addict. If they give drugs, they are trying to invite you into their own disgusting life. They're like zombies

TrillXHippy · Answer

“You can’t see me” is John Cena’s catchphrase. She actually can’t see me ever again

comekitty · Answer

That'd be a deal breaker!

England4eva · Answer

I’d be instantly uninterested in him

EmmaMary · Answer

Just one word... GOODBYE .

Minahh · Answer

I would break up with them. People doing heavy drugs are lost souls.

SnowedIn · Answer

No and it's over immediately.

Anonymous · Answer

I would decline. And there wouldn't be a second date.

Appleserpia · Answer

If she isn't willing to quit it, it's a hasta la vista, baby.✌️✌️

musicbrain5 · Answer

Leave and never contact them again.

Anonymous · Answer

I am out if it is anything other than ecstasy. If it is, then I will have a moral dilemma.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I'd get up and leave.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I would be out the door.

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

Refuse, leave, and break all contact.

Being_a_good_Indian · Answer

NO. It absolutely won't work out.

DermalPunch · Answer

Oh good God, no. Huge turnoff.

iron_ninjs · Answer

That would be our last date.

AngelLily · Answer

I Would Get up an leave.

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