I thought the goal of dating was to find someone you want to marry if whilst getting to know someone I ever think they’re just along for the ride I’ll end things right there tbh
Why the hell do I waste my time and effort on a woman who I'm not going to marry after all? And what will it to to her feelings? There are many many things to consider It's like a responsibility.
Men should never get married, but that doesn't mean men can't date in a committed relationship.
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Dating to marry… and it worked! My fiancé and I got engaged pretty quickly because going into it marriage was the end goal for us both and we matched on everything important.
but for (possibly a minority) of, at least us guys, that actually makes rhings worse as we then get more worried about loosing or messing up the friendship already built.
My purpose of dating is to find someone to settle down with…. I’m way past that teenage phase where people only date to date at that age lol…. after age 30 most people look to settle down…
Death and impermanence are the only things guaranteed in life. I wouldn't want to marry someone just to end in some divorce. Wouldn't like to just lead false lives around one another without any real connection.
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Date to date, because it’s about getting to know them. Not just outright martyring an utter stranger.
I thought the goal of dating was to find someone you want to marry if whilst getting to know someone I ever think they’re just along for the ride I’ll end things right there tbh
Why the hell do I waste my time and effort on a woman who I'm not going to marry after all?
And what will it to to her feelings?
There are many many things to consider
It's like a responsibility.
Yep, it's better to not have effects rather than affect someone's life badly, in the name of attachment.
Men should never get married, but that doesn't mean men can't date in a committed relationship.
Dating to marry… and it worked! My fiancé and I got engaged pretty quickly because going into it marriage was the end goal for us both and we matched on everything important.
but for (possibly a minority) of, at least us guys, that actually makes rhings worse as we then get more worried about loosing or messing up the friendship already built.
Dating to marry. I mean not really marry necessary but you know having high standards and not just dating someone because I'm bored or lonely.
Don’t give up so quickly
Date to marry or at least live together at some point lmao..
No point to date just to date and waste people's time
I date in hopes of a long term relationship.
My purpose of dating is to find someone to settle down with…. I’m way past that teenage phase where people only date to date at that age lol…. after age 30 most people look to settle down…
Dating to marry sounds too forceful
Date to Date just get to know each other
like that song says “ First comes Love then comes marriage “
I value long term relationships. It doesn't have to end in marriage though.
I prefer getting to know someone first, so I prefer the experience gained from dating and just having a decent day to ourselves.
Date to marry
Life span is 70 years old if you are lucky and no car crashes you don’t be an idiot and waste your time for fun dating
Never dated. Not fond of marrying either. So neither. Unless it seems best for me in all aspects.
Death and impermanence are the only things guaranteed in life. I wouldn't want to marry someone just to end in some divorce. Wouldn't like to just lead false lives around one another without any real connection.
I don’t ever want to get married, it’s only a title. Most married people are miserable and unhappy. It’s overrated in my opinion.
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I date to date. I’m not interested in marriage at this time
I see nothing interesting in dating if you don't expect it to last.
I wouldn't date at all. Callboy's dont date 🤣
"dating to marry" doesn't exist
Why's that?