I think it is true but everyone is different. I like older men because they are more emotionally security, stable, less manipulative. Younger guys pretend to love me, when all they really want is sex. Older guys who want sex are more up front about it.
Ever met a great guy, who after having sex says he doesn't want anything serious but prior to that he said and did everything right to lead you on, so that you would think he might be the one? He made you think he wanted something serious?
Older men don't do that, they don't play games they get to the point.
It only takes one younger guy to trick a girl before she says never again and moves up the age chain to someone less likely to do that again.
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(30-35)
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Yes but not up to 4 years old maybe Someone is lying you it’s NOT true 20..30..40 NEVER. Unless they go after money or some other mental issues. Even though I’m 30 I don’t like 40 years old men too old let alone 50 ew My boyfriend is 32 so that’s like 2 years difference
Don’t lie to yourself. If you can.. find a women as soon as you can in your late 20s and up to mid30s. No one cares about your old sperm of you reach 40 and especially a mediocre salary no life and smelly
The oldest I went was 64. I really had no limits lol… until he mentioned chest pain - in a manipulative way…
so not only was that annoying but it was concerning. It made me realize huh
Life is short
and this guy cannot get erect anymore and it’s dried out lol really was because he neglected self care as a divorced ruffian back in his day who worked as a construction worker.
what did they mean for him?
no female to give him some care, dirty finger nails, dark unfurnished home, and other things too.
I don’t care if it’s “manly” or not, it wasn’t good for him psychologically to be in the dark and to lack caring for himself.
I figure I too will be old one day and if I hook up with him and he leaves me, I will be an older lady who no young guy would want lol
I never experienced a young guy, so I may as well before I too become dried out 🤢🤮😭😂.
sex is for the young. I don’t see why anyone would want or need it at an old age. Like just calm down and enjoy some bliss for a bit before checking out.
I don’t want a water park on my last day at a hotel and right in the lobby lol
That would be ideal for the first or second day. Lounging in the foyer before leaving would be my ideal time.
So just be logical sexually.
If a lady wants some type of comfort from an older man- it’s short lived. Literally. So grab your pep talks and cuddles, and be ready for the goodbyes.
If you’re a sexual woman, just get it from a younger guy… who’s preferably RESPECTABLE- and respectful.
Some girls like it and, when you see such a couple, you make a note of it. But when you see same age couples, you ether don't notice or don't remember, so you tend to overestimate the prevalence of this happening.
I think they like it... when I get out an about in the market... who do you think I start shagging first? If your answer is some 40 year old chick like me with orangutan titties swing wildly about you would be wrong. Most of the time it's some barely legal chick that has a total fag that won't touch her as a boyfriend. Well... I'll touch her... with my pinus. I'll show her the good stuff she's been missing out on. Just speaking from my own life experience here... don't hate the player, hat the game.
Yes and no I am attracted to older men when it comes to relationships because they are usually more mature and have there shit together. I like to feel looked after and protected in a relationship.
I'm not saying younger men can't be like this too and I have found myself being attracted to guys a little younger to me as well at times because they are more fun and trendy looking but I also think a younger guy wouldn't want the same as me in a relationship and I wouldn't want to push them into something there not ready for yet.
My boyfriend is 5 years older than me and I feel like me and him are both on the same wave length and want the same things out of life together for example buying a house, getting married and having a family
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Women prefer security, of any sorts. Be it financial, physical, personal, etc. It is natural for women to want men that are settled in their lives. But the only men, in majority, that can be seen as settled are slightly older. Because of their savings, career/business and all. Natutally, girls/women go there.
Actually there are men/boys who are really really sorted and settled in their early days. But the percentage is very very very low. They are really very difficult to find, it seems. Plus, the question of these boys even wanting to be with girls is also there.
Nowadays, many people are hurt emotionally. And they just want peace. Them alone and their work. Professional settings and life, not included. This question is also there.
I found that to be somewhat true and have actually asked younger women sometimes. Whether they had a poor relationship with their father or a good relationship with their father, they tend to look for guys that are either the opposite or similar to their dads respectively.
The girl that has a poor relationship with their dad, tries to find an older guy that treats them well and with respect, because they did not have that growing up.
The girl that had a good relationship with their father, tend to look for someone similar in character. That sometimes leads them to older men, because that is who they relate to.
The old saying some girls have father issues, actually applies more often than not.
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conroy-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them. In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men. Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
Yes there is something of a thing going on. Not that often. Most couples are within a year or two age gap. But about 10% have a ten year gap or more.
I have heard girls talking about the 'older man' concept and it hasn't been Eewww. At a work Christmas party one of the office girls spent a lot of time trying to persuade a consultant that younger girl older guy was a good concept.
The only negative expression I've heard was that it was a bit daddyish if the guy was about the same age as daddy.
An advantage for a girl is they get to see how the man is turning out. Truth is when I was younger, getting in was all it was about.
With a few more years I appreciate and enjoy girls more than my younger self. That might be a factor also.
Although you're the only one saying this on this question, I don't think you're even close to alone. People have ways of liking both older and younger, but many find youth very attractive
Is there a pattern? Such as was your mom older than your dad? Were you the oldest sibling? What are some experiences that can be seen as traumatizing? It would be useless to know.
But when I was 14, I was talking with a guy in English, I was talking with him to improve my English, we grew close, he told me he was 22 and I found out later he was a 52 years old catfish with a wife and 3 children older than me, he flirted with me though and tried to sext with me, I was too shy and unwilling to sext with him but when I found out his true age, I felt gross about him. I told myself that older men are gross and I would never be attracted to one ever. I felt sorry for his wife, for his children. I just felt really disgusted of him and I guess, I was so affected emotionally by that incident that I believed older men don’t deserve women at all and women should go for younger guys. These were my thoughts that day.
I don’t know maybe it subconsciously changed my attraction.
I might fall in live with someone older, but I won’t look for older men, I like young sexually fertile males who can give me the best children when I want them in future.
There was an exception, my ex fiancé was one year older than me and I’ve liked older guys but I just feel sexually attracted to the younger ones the most.
I suppose in the opposite, I usually am attracted to older women. If someone is younger than me, I tend not to be attracted unless they're particularly mature or have real goals and independence
@b-river Yep, I see. What do you like the most about older girls? Goals and independence or is there anything else
For me, I and my ex fiancé broke up 8 months ago and I started going out 3 months ago, before then I wasn’t attracted to anyone else but him but I found out that almost all the guys I’ve felt attracted to were under or about the age of 23, the youngest who I felt the chemistry with was 18, the oldest was 26. But I feel like my mind just picks younger guys without me wanting so, I just like a guy and find out he is younger than me.
Thanks for sharing. It makes sense that all effects have a cause. If one prefers one thing then they must be actually avoiding the opposite because of a previous negative experience with it, maybe even their ancestors did. Naturally we'd have 0 preference, animal biology only knows fertility. Again, there is always a cause. It must be more of pain avoidance than anything else.
There's a dynamic between being girlish and womanly, just like between being boyish and manly. Everyone has there balance of those inside of them, and I prefer more womenly traits. I like adult relationships where neither person has to take care of the other. We can just both enjoy each other, and be a team.
Not true.. I never wanted older men.. I tend to like younger or the same age, because I am immature. And they just look fucking nice with those abs and shit. But yes when l was younger there was that one or 2 girls fucking some ones dad (s)...
I noticed for me, I always was attracted to older males. I'm not saying a whole 20 years older but maybe like 8 years the most. I'm not sure why honestly, maybe the maturity and that sense of protection. I would always prefer a man to be older than me in a relationship.
It depends on the woman's preferences but I could never be with someone older then me just due to the split in generations. Seems like only gen z men truly understand how to respect women and have some knowledge on how to actually have sex. Older guys lack these things cuz they just weren't taught better
It depends on the job and level of education I think. Women who are students or young graduates in their first job tend to prefer men in the same situation and age bracket. This changes at the latest by the age of 35. By then, many go for guys older by about 10 years or even a bit more and it also becomes mch easier to date them as a man. For young women in simple professions this can start earlier.
Its always been true , and I can easily see why , from when I was 16 and lost my girlfriend to a 24 year old school teacher , he was a proper man , I was a little kid , as life went on , so very many examples.
girls like older guys but not like 40yos unless they're after that $$$$$ or they got daddy issues
its more like girls like guys 1-4 years older something like that, but guys the same age or slightly younger are still really really hot and very much boyfriend material
I think it's less about the age itself and more about what they have at that age. Usually an older man will have more things going for them than a younger guy will simply because they have been through more in life. I just think if a woman can find a guy her age that is emotionally mature and has his shit together mostly then they will choose that guy instead of the older guy.
Not all do, but it is pretty common. They usually are interested in the tall, strong, masculine, intelligent older men though, not the weak, balding, incompetent, partying older men. Basically they go for the older men that have good genetics most of the time with good habits. That is one of the benefits for them. They can mostly tell how he will be long term because any potential flaws or possible bad habits are likely already exposed.
Because of female hypergamy, women tend to prefer men who are older than them. Why? Because those men are more established, tend to have plenty of resources, and are considered to be things like more mature.
I didn't create hypergamy. Nature did. If you aren't sure what hypergamy is, definitely do a bit of studying. It'll help you understand better.
Yeah the majority prefer the guy to be older... It's understandable... Almost all women are submissive lol and they like the guy to be wiser and more stable so they can rely on him... And someone older is more likely to be that... Actually I've noticed for a lot of girls, falling for a younger guy is like a taboo... They're like " Ewww.. weird"... And they kinda hate themselves for it lol...
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