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Lots of women have asked their partners to rate their attractiveness on a scale 1-10. But from men answers, the highest men ever rated their woman is a solid 8.
Why not a perfect 10? Especially if they love them.
Because most men were taught to not make a girl feel that she is absolutely gorgeous to his eyes because the second he compliments her and puts her on a high pedestal like she is perfect , she will then begin to lose interest in him , Most girls’ are turned off by a man that constantly pampers her with love and compliments , cuz most girl’s need a challenge , she will love it on the beginning but eventually get sick of it , so he tends to put her on a lower scale to keep her interested in him , I know this sounds crazy , but it’s sad but true, for the most part , Most girls’ need a guy that can be good and bad for her , for her to want to stand by his side, if he is too good for her , she will lose interest in him , if he is too bad for her , she will lose interest in him , to keep a girl by his side he has to balance in between good and bad , When a guy learns to balance that with a girl , she will more than likely stay by his side , based off of my experiences with girls’ this is pretty much what I learned to do to keep a girl loyal to me , for the most part , When I was younger and dating girls , I would treat her the way I wanted to be treated , complimenting her , telling her she is beautiful , doing everything for her like she was a princess , kissing her ass pretty much , not realizing she was getting turned off by it as time went on because I was too good to her , those girl’s ended up cheating on me , When I started treating girls like shit cuz I didn’t trust them , girls were pretty much chasing me and I wasn’t sure as to why? I was like WTF? Until I realized girls’ need drama in their lives , if she doesn’t have drama she is going to lose interest , A girl needs to be on her toes for a guy that she isn’t to sure about , when he has a good heart but also can be a dickhead at times , and shows confidence that he will be fine without her , she gets turned on by his masculine energy and his confidence , most girls love being submissive to their men , they want a man she can look up to , so by him doing that to her , makes it more of a challenge to her , So disagree with me all you want , This shit has worked for me plenty of times with girls’ I will tell a girl she is beautiful which she is to my eyes , but I will never make her feel perfect , I will tease her and make her feel like she is lucky to be with me but don’t think you aren’t replaceable, You either treat me with love and respect or don’t let the door hit ya in the ass on the way out , Makes her so wet , and has her crawling back into bed , cuz most girl’s love being dominated
Hmmm….. So if I’m being real? If I were with a girl and I knew she wouldn’t get a big head from it? I’d complement her relentlessly.
Yeah, I’d call her a perfect 10.
But as for other guys….. Well you gotta understand, guys aren’t like girls where they want pretty little lies to make them feel better or even positive affirmations that aren’t necessarily true but are subjective enough such that they aren’t utterly false either.
a guy who understands what you’re looking for (me) is rare, and it just comes from how guys are socialized.
what you want isn’t to be a 10, but what you want is to feel secure enough in your lovers attraction for you.
If I was with you, I’d call you a 10 if you asked and I felt safe with you.
But make no mistake? If I felt safe with you, I get rough and say some toxic shit in bed.
and if my lover who I felt safe with asked me if her pants made her butt look big? I’d playfully-threateningly tell her “it fucking better….”
But that’s just me.
What is 10 actually? Like how are u rating them? By look? Education? Behaviour? Etc? I often bump into memes “ when she’s 10 but she got attitude “ . Well how can she be 10 if she has attitude? 10/10 isn’t that perfection? I believe nobody is perfect. But if u do find one please show me 😂
WHAT then you're with the wrong guy. my partner would rate me a 10+, no less!
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Let's establish some context - we're talking about a looks rating, and not an overall rating, right? Because men (generally) are used to being objective, and basing things on facts rather than feelings.
If a man thinks you are a 7 when he loves you, and you break his heart and crush him, he will still consider you a 7. Whereas a woman in love might rate a man a 10 if she's in love with him, and then he leaves the toilet seat up and doesn't replace the empty toilet paper roll, and now he's a 2. For men, that kind of emotional rating doesn't make sense.
Because they asked the question. Obviously there is other reasons then looks they want to be with them.
But don’t ask a question you don’t want the answer to.
10 is perfection, and no one is perfect
Why would it matter? Once you're with someone in a monogamous relationship the number game is irrelevant. If neither party is cheating it should not matter if someone hotter comes along.
Anyway, the one reason I can think of is because a 10 will immediately cease to be a 10 once they stop being someone you adore from a distance but become someone you have in your life.
It's the nature of desire and attraction. Men beat off to porn, but I don't believe a relationship or attraction to a porn star, even one a guy jacks to on a regular would last any longer than puppy love.
Women aren't much different there, if I were to approach ten women and tell them I'm a single parent, I won't get much interest, but the moment I approach ten women saying I'm happily married with my family, I'll get more interest because I'm less available. Again, that is irrelevant.
Because they definitely have a 10 in mind but, unfortunately,…
Anywho, do the math! In a world where ones through tens lived equally, as in, 10% ones, 10% twos, etc. Mathematics state that 90% of us aren’t tens. In reality, 10% of all women aren't tens. It just doesn’t work like that. I understand it must be the same for men being tens for women lol I wouldn’t know.
Also, we never talk about the lower numbers in this scale and how we all subconsciously are well aware yet, we don’t talk about how fucked up this scale is. It’s really a scale of 1-5… Think about it, 7 is average as fuck, 8 is great but, 9 could be better. 6 is unfair. 5 is like never mentioned… “that girl is a 5.” Is something a wise man would NEVER waste is time of day to say. That been said so like anything 5 or less is all the same thing.
I don’t really care too much for this make believe scale. We’re all tens in our own way!
I think that men who are thinking rationally, not emotionally, realize that 10/10 is perfection, and no is perfect. Also, physically most men know they can not have a 10/10. That being said, I do think that there are some men who do think that their woman is as good as it gets. For me, if I'm really into someone and thinking emotionally, she's going to look like 10/10. I've had situations where I thought she was the most beautiful girl in the world, but from talking to people, I realized that the connection I had with her made her look this way to me. For me, I actually believe I can attract the best looking girls though, so it's easier for me to think someone is a 10/10. This is not the case for the vast majority of guys.
Women want men to be honest, but usually each woman also wants to feel like the single most beautiful person to her man. It is fortunate when he really feels this way, but that's usually not the reality.
Too say you are 10 is, you are perfect in every sense to every body. I don't believe anyone will be 10 to everyone. But you could be a 10 to some or to your partner. For that reason I think this rating games is BS.
No human is perfect, in body, or personality. what can happen is can be inspired to motivated to be like someone. But that person we aspire to be, is not perfect themselves.
I think are putting huge pressure on ourselves to seek perfection in body, and looks and that is dangerous. There is no such as perfection, hence no such a person as a 10.
With such a scaling it should be expected that about 3% are in the top category. That's because medium attractiveness is more common.
How many cases did you check? In 30 cases you might expect one.
However, I think your premise is wrong. There is a significant minority of guys who feel that their current partner is the most beautiful woman of all and will easily rate 10 out of 10. For them, the hormones work like alcohol does for most of us and it deceives their eyes.
On the other hand, top category is not "perfection". Margot Robbie is a 10 out of 10, but the prettiest girl in many senior high school classes is as well.
Why would a woman ask or want a man to look at her in such a critical fashion? Why would she ask a dumb question like that and put the man a a position where he tells her something hurtful. She knows she's not going to like the answer in the first place. Most women are not 10's. Like 99.5% aren't 10's. But what are the chances of an average Joe having a woman who is a 10 in looks and the perfect wife? I think you are mixing things up here or are not looking at the whole enchilada. Are you speaking of just physical beauty or attractiveness as far as a desirable life partner? I'd rather have a woman who was a 5 in looks that is a great stable person any day over a beautiful trainwreck. If she's not responsible, does hard drugs or is drunk all the time, can't keep herself out of trouble, is on psych meds or is crazy, a manipulator or narcissist, I'll pass. I don't care if she's better looking than Helen of Troy or Cleopatra.
Because loving someone means accepting them despite their flaws, not pretending their flaws don't exist- and if you're close enough to really love somebody, you're close enough to see the problems they have.
I don't think I would go there at all. Rating the women you love can only lead to disaster.
Even, if you give them a 10, they would be like... is that for looks or the overall grade.
The your are into trying to break it down and it can just go from bad to worse.
Guys are usually pretty honest. He either doesn't think you are at a 10 level in terms of looks or is making an objective comparison of whether you conform to contemporary beauty standards.
Hopefully he likes you for reasons other than your body though. Unless it is a hookup scenario in which case he probably just wants sex. Quality boyfriends like you for more than your body and dgaf what attractiveness number you are.
You'd have to be extremely delusional to think you are a flawless person. We all have strengths and weaknesses. We all have idiosyncrasies that might rub people wrong. We all have positive and negative emotions and behaviors. No one is perfect. Get the fuck over it you psycho.
Isn't it implied she's a 10 to me?
Assuming she knows that and is not asking to get a compliment she wants a second opinion of what most people would think.
Most people are considered 7s. Its the safe rating to give someone. 8 comes about because we're still biased and we are expressing that bias.
Change the questions to "1-10, what am I to you?" And you get the 10s. Well, after the mandatory joke to rile you up.
It’s pure math and truth. It cannot be simpler. At the most maybe he wants he to get hotter, but that would still mean she’s not a 10. We should be asking you; why should we give out ratings of 10? It sounds like you’re implying we should to not hurt her feelings. But that’s a slippery slope of enabling all kinds of bad decisions. Plus, that would make him a Yes-man, and I hear girls hate that.
You ask almost any guy, they'll say they've never seen an absolutely perfect, unquestionable 10. It doesn't exist.
And woman shouldn't even try to get there.
If you're a woman worrying about being anything past an 8 is kinda silly.
Yeah, guys are stupid. You should always tell a woman that she is beautiful and a perfect 10. You can be more honest in other areas but looks are very important to a woman and she obviously wants to look good for you. So be sure to go with this white lie.
u Why do women ask for ratings?
Maybe because they aren't a 10. If she's a 3, why would anyone rate here a 10?
A 3 is a 3
A 7 is a 7
A 10 is a 10
Loving her is completely irrelevant.
Unlike women, men don't insist that their girlfriend be a perfect 10 to fall in love with them. We're more willing to be happy with a girl that isn't perfect.
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