Should men be considered shallow for dating only hot women and women for dating only tall guys?

[wannabecuck-2]

[Just_call_me_Levi]

Simple answer: Yes.

Looks play a big role in wether or not you feel strong chemistry with someone, so in the ideal world you find someone that has good looks with the personality to match, but to prioritize beauty over substance (personality/intelligence) I will never understand and do consider very shallow.

But to each their own.

[inhua]

hot is subjective. tall is objective

[imawfulatusernames]

I’ve dated men from 6ft8 to 5ft5 my current boyfriend isn’t tall or short just yknow average height. My entire issue with this conversation is it’s made by men for other men to be like yeah dude totally fuck these women. I’m never encountered a single woman irl or online who genuinely cares if a guy was tall or not.

[wannabecuck-2]

Ho check Asian or short women.

[wannabecuck-2]

I ve never seen a lady who doesn't boast about his boyfriend height

[jennifer_bloom]

I know a lot of men that don't expect the girl to look very good, they just expect her to match him in beauty or look a little better then him. If he is a 5, she can be a 5 or 6. She does not need to be a 9 or 10.

[MrOracle]

Yes. That's the very definition of shallow.

[Haha456]

Men tend to be more visual than women, which makes them more shallow. There is a saying "Men fall in love with their eyes while women fall in love with their ears"

[wannabecuck-2]

Years and tall dudes.

[Haha456]

@wannabecuck-2

there are plenty of beautiful girls dating butt ugly short dudes.

[inhua]

@haha456 those are exceptions not the norm and even then those dudes tend to have money. outliers don't disprove the rule, they prove the rule

[Haha456]

@inhua

actually no, a lot of these dudes do not have money. Vast majority of women do not marry rich men

[inhua]

@haha456 vast majority of women do not marry homeless men either

[Haha456]

@inhua

I have seen beautiful girls date butt ugly broke guys.

[wannabecuck-2]

They only do that vuz they think theyre doing a favour of dating them. [ i bet those ugly guys were tall ] they think they ll get loyality. No one likes favour. I hate when women do favour dating me rather than not looking at personality.

[wannabecuck-2]

I dont like to boast myself most guy s dont even say what they feel cuz they think they ll be judged and think he s man splaimong

[inhua]

@haha456 exceptions don't make the rule.

if we go by exceptions then most humans should be over 8 feet tall because Robert Wadlow was over 8 feet tall even though most humans aren't even over 6 feet tall

even then I doubt those girls are as beautiful and those guys are as broke/ugly as you claim they are

[wannabecuck-2]

Bro people say something and do something else. I ve never seen a tall guy not even have an ex.

[Haha456]

@inhua

My point is... there are way more beautiful girls dating ugly broke dudes than handsome men dating older women or fat women.

[wannabecuck-2]

😒i ve seen lot of ugly fat ladys hookup younger handsome men

[wannabecuck-2]

Men are scum i dont dis agree. They fuck who they can.

[inhua]

maybe so but handsome men are an extreme rarity amongst the global male population whereas beautiful women are a lot more plentiful

what is rare typically has more value and when the all the attractive men partner up with the small proportion of attractive women, there's gonna be leftover attractive women who will either stay single or partner up with a less attractive male partner

it still doesn't take away the fact that women are attracted to attractive men just because some less attractive men were settled for

[wannabecuck-2]

No one likes to be a settlement tbh.

[Haha456]

@inhua @wannabecuck-2

men tend to have higher standards than women when it comes to shallow things. Women tend to have higher standards than men when it comes to personality and character.

[wannabecuck-2]

🤔 never seen a loyal lday prolly thats why i am so misogynistic at times

[inhua]

@haha456 I don't know what high standards for shallow things you're referring to but most beauty standards men have for women are achievable and within their control. things like height and jawline structure are things men don't care about that can't be controlled but women care about in men.

there's a market out there for all types of women of various ethnicities, body shapes, robotic women, cartoon women, old women, young women etc. men are polygamous by nature and less picky. women are hypergamous by nature and more picky. there's nothing wrong with women being more picky but it's intellectual dishonest to believe men have higher standards in beauty just because men respond differently to visuals than women do

I also beg to differ that women have higher standards for personality. shame tactics are often used against men to shame into liking certain women that men are "fatphobic" for not wanting fat women or men are "intimidated" by career women or men are "oppressive" for wanting virgin women etc.

[Haha456]

@inhua

Men don't care if a woman is a bitch as long as she's hot. Women don't even obsess over a man's wallet. As long as a guy has a decent job, he can get a woman. He doesn't even need to be rich. But a woman needs to look 20s, just to get a boyfriend.

[Haha456]

@inhua

[I also beg to differ that women have higher standards for personality. shame tactics are often used against men to shame into liking certain women that men are "fatphobic" for not wanting fat women or men are "intimidated" by career women or men are "oppressive" for wanting virgin women etc.]

Like I said, guys don't care about personality or character. They only care about superficial things such as "weight" "virginity" "career".

how about loving a woman for who she is instead of focusing on everything else that is not her?

[wannabecuck-2]

Been there done that women put those dudes on freindzone. And if on face a guy says u aren't 20 in looks u guys can't digest it

[inhua]

all factors listed are within one's control. factors like height, jawline, looking like Zac Efron etc. are not.

weight can be controlled by going to the gym unless you're physically disabled beyond repair. fat is a sign of laziness which is a personality/character flaw. body count can also be controlled. higher body count is an indication of poor impulse control, impatience and inability for delay gratification plus higher chances of infidelity and disloyalty, also they are personality/character flaws

quite frankly, men don't care about a woman's career, it's irrelevant whether a woman works as a lawyer or a waitress yet when men show preference towards family oriented traditional women, the shame tactics come out. just because women care about a man's career doesn't mean men care about a woman's career and many make the mistake thinking men are just as shallow as them

[wannabecuck-2]

Dood add another point if a woman gets equal job she thinks she deserves better and leaves the guy

[wannabecuck-2]

Its all game of demand and supply thanks to that these idiots get whatever they want without any consiquenxes.

[inhua]

only men will no options won't care if she's a bitch. a lot of men have been feminized and conditioned to accept being beneath women and pedestalizing them.

plenty of men have decent jobs and still end up getting dragged through the divorce courts and ending up in a worse financial situation than before the relationship began. decent has never cut it for men. not even attractive men are safe from divorce e. g. Channing Tatum, Tom Brady, Brad Pitt, Jason Momoa, Dwayne Johnson etc. have all been through divorce despite some of them having great personalities

women don't need to be 20s to get a boyfriend but 20s is their best shot to get the best quality boyfriend she can get and by best quality, a man with a decent job won't cut it as best quality

[Phoenix98]

Everyone is shallow to a degree and everyone has their preferences after all.

Personality is important it's always looks that make someone take that first step into approaching someone or asking them out.

[TheIrishWolf]

Not really. You have preferences, so what's the problem? It's only a problem in you're reaching for the stars. And you're on the same level of what you're looking for.

At the end of the day, what's hot to someone someone is subjective.

[Anonymous]

No. But men and women who choose to do so shouldn't be b****ing about thier lack of prospects either. It's fine to have whatever standards you choose. But keep in mind YOU are the one who chose to make your dating pool small.

[John_Doesnt]

Women only want men with money who will pay for dates and men only want hot girls. Both are shallow and we have to accept the double standards. Stop saying "equal rights" when people only want equal rights when it benefits them.

[FreyaRed]

Better being considered shallow by losers than dating losers.

[wannabecuck-2]

👀 like a guy can have muscles and build himself be self qccountable will be still be a loser in ur eyes?

[FreyaRed]

is he shorter than 180 cm?

[wannabecuck-2]

👀 are taller than 5 10 ?

[wannabecuck-2]

Do u earn 6 figs?

[wannabecuck-2]

No wonder u dont have anything to say u dont reply

[wannabecuck-2]

I wish men said this loser thingy.

[wannabecuck-2]

U work hard and someone says u loser thats what hard workers deserve dont they

[wannabecuck-2]

Like dood will give his best and still someone will be a scum like u are

[FreyaRed]

Rage?

[wannabecuck-2]

👀 ? Should i not be angry like me giving best and not even getting equal of what i deserve?

[wannabecuck-2]

Dont u get angry on urself when u fail the test? Despite giving all?

[FreyaRed]

Your behavior is also a catharsis? or do you react always impulsive to any slightest provocation that isn't even meant seriously?

[BoopBoopBeep]

No, everybody has their preference that they are entitled to have.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yes, we go after what we're attracted to and looks play a part in that. You like what you like.

[AdithyaR]

Not really, if that's the only criteria they have then maybe yeah I'd consider them shallow.
Otherwise, to each their own.

[Luopio27]

Many men and women are destrnd to fuck esch others reputations, give birth to stereotypes and raise tension aa parents raise children.

[Anonymous]

everyone has a preference when it comes to dating , of course hot women get more interest and tall guys tend to get more girls

[LiamJHayden]

Am I shallow for preferring the girl-next-door type? People should date whom they want.

[melanieeeB]

How about you start living in the real world tho

[Christoff92]

They're both nuts 🤣

[wannabecuck-2]

Agreed

[Nikki1989]

Can you generalize anymore?

[wannabecuck-2]

👀 tell me who doeant boast about dating a six feet plus man or a hot woman. Rather than boasting about their qualities.

[wannabecuck-2]

No one says it on face that ur product is bad they just start buying other product

[CrimsonAngel09]

Yep.

[Jazzy54]

Yes. Looks fade.

[Anonymous]

Yes
I agree
Shallow