Guys, Is he entertaining other girls?

[Anonymous]

Hi, I've met this guy through bumble when I was in my business trip and his on vacation. We met in dinner, hit off and had sex.

We're still communicating via WhatsApp. He has old socmed account but bot a big fan of it.

His updating me on what's happening on his end, even sending pictures or just telling me what is he up to. Now, in getting a bit paranoid as he is online but taking a lot of time to reply to my messages. My gut feel is telling me he is talking to other girls, take note were not exclusive, should I ask him directly about it?

Aso I was planning to travel to his country just to see him as I really wanted this to prosper should I do that? Will he appreciates it?

[spartan55]

What are doing on your end? Are you contacting him sometimes? Keeping him up to date? Etc like his for you?
So because he doesn't respond as promptly as you feel he should then he is automatically talking to other women? What kind of stupid logic is that?

[Asker]

We're talking everyday and I'm also updating him. That's why I'm asking about this cause I'm sorry if this sounds stupid, I haven't had a lot of dating experience that's why I'm asking

[spartan55]

Ok, first of all, you are putting WAY too much value on texting. It is designed to be a SECONDARY form of communication. Guys don't like it and girls can't understand why. Second, those 'user online' trackers are not very accurate.

[BoopBoopBeep]

If you aren't exclusive he's allowed to see other people, so honestly it's none of your business and he's not obligated to tell you. If you want to take this to the next level, the two of you should discuss that, but you can't hold him to a standard that he didn't know was in place.

[boggboss]

Thats possible or he is messaging friends it could be anyone

[Asker]

Should I ask him directly? He send me a picture a while ago that he is on his way to a conference and he reads my messages but doesn't reply. Am I too paranoid?

[boggboss]

So here is the thing you are not exclusive so if he is u can't really get upset and even if he is and dont want u to know he can always tell u a lie

[Asker]

I know I shouldn't get upset, I just wanted to know where should I position myself and should I entertain other people too.

[boggboss]

If your not even dating yes

[Asker]

Thank you for answering all my questions.

[shades777]

Well you did meet on Bumble, a dating app where only the women gives the green light.

[Asker]

So how's that connected sorry I'm confused

[Iron_Man]

Contact him and talk

[In_Trance]

probably