Guys, has it ever happened that you found a girl very beautiful and attractive but you didn't have the courage to approach her?

[Anonymous]

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And later you regret it a lot.

[TheMadLad]

It’s not about courage to approach her, It’s about how much can my life relate to hers.

I’m in a tough time in my life so having a woman in my life would be wonderful but I’m not capable of providing her with anything.

Also, why put someone through my own problems and mistakes!

It’s not worth it.

[Asker]

I can understand. Good luck dear

[Summeroflove]

I see good looking people all the time. I wouldn’t say it’s a lack of courage… irs more of just that I don’t know them.


I have had a few times where I kicked myself over someone. But haven’t we all? At some point

[Truthatanycost]

Nope. i just no longer approach anymore regardless (the juice is not worth the squeeze). Back when I used to approach women, it was never a matter of courage, I'd just approach what ever girl I found attractive where ever she was, even if she was with friends. Nowadays, I don't see any as worth approaching and I've walked away from dating, relationships and all related period. It's not worth it (too many high body counts, promiscuity and feminism).

[FilmGuy93]

It's never been a courage problem. It's always been a "oh, I don't think she wants me to interact with her" problem.

[Asker]

Really thats the reason? But how do you know that? Does she act cold?

[FilmGuy93]

Could be that she acts cold, uncomfortable, or is simply busy. Occasionally it's a distinctly pissed off or exasperated look on her face, but that's pretty rare.

A lot of women in the West are impressively unpleasant people to interact with.

[Asker]

I am beautiful but boys don't approach me so someone told me that you look very serious.

[YourExLover69]

Yes that has happened few times.

The cold attitude of girl, not showing any signs of interest, overthinking that she would make mess/tamasha of of this, assuming she is already seeing someone else, or thinking I'm not his type... These things stopped me approaching/chasing her.

[Asker]

How did you meet that girl?

[YourExLover69]

Seeing her in University depart.

[Asker]

Approach her through mutual friends.

[Asker]

Phir us se friendship kro phir ahista ahista pata karo k wo single hy ya nhi.

[YourExLover69]

Nahi ab boht DER ho chuki he yar, ye purani baat he

[Anonymous]

Yes to to the question. No to the description. She's got a mouth and she cab use it. Whether I asked her out or not doesn't change the fact that she could have asked me. And if she didn't then clearly she doesn't think much of me. So why would I regret not asking out a woman who didn't think much of me?

Your question makes no sense when you look at it rationally.

[TheThingALing]

Yes of course. With more experience though and learning to not take it personal when a girl denies your advances, it naturally becomes much easier.

[Anonymous]

I approach a girl I liked. I wrote it down in a letter form and always gave them a letter in person.

Sadly, the girls would also laugh about it. The most nicest were two girls. Maha and Sara who didn't laugh.

Maha was like a religious slut. She was sober and all and pretty and good character

[ImalwaysrightOK]

If she's attractive, I'm thinking she already has a boyfriend or why would she say yes to me.

[NathanDavis]

I had that happening as a kid... lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't approach most of them. There's only so much time in the day.

[Rizwan_khan]

This happened when i was at school because at that time i used to very shy guy. But now i have courage and confidenc.

[Asker]

Good

[rebeliouse]

all the fucking time you girls are vicious and scary and killers

[Asker]

You are afraid of girls?

[rebeliouse]

not all these days I've got some more confidence since getting laid

[rebeliouse]

dm me?

[worldscolide]

No, if i did that I wouldn't have my wife

[Asker]

Happy to hear that.

[Andres77]

🕊🦅🦃🐓🦆

[Luckycharms12]

Of course especially as teen

[Asker]

Can u share one incident?

[sattii1987]

Dime a dozen, many many times happened to me

[Asker]

But why? u scared of girls?

[sattii1987]

Not scared of girls, scared or rather sure of rejection 😅

[Andres77]

all my life

[Asker]

Any one which made u sad or which regret u most

[Andres77]

there's a few. absolutely.
there was a time when i was EXTREMELY shy... and i missed a lot of opportunities. and then i pulled out a shotgun and approached WAY to many people. and now i have 3 failed marriages under my belt and had to deal with sex addiction in my 20's.

[Asker]

Sad...

[Andres77]

in my 20's, absolutely. my life isn't perfect but i've done more than most and i can't complain.

[Arik_jade]

Yes.. it happened

[Jamie05rhs]

Yeah