Please help me guys, is it okay if my girlfriend allows other men to touch her?

[Anonymous]

So there's her trainer friend at the gym, he’s been training my girlfriend for like almost a year now they are pretty good friends but i’ve been noticing he and my girlfriend are physically touchy like sometimes i feel like my girlfriend should set a boundary that you don’t allow other man to touch you like he jokingly touches her tights her neck i hate that, we both have talk about this but still the issue remains the same I don’t like that. What should i do?

[StormChaser838]

You should begin to like it. If she does not have a problem with it, who are you? Even being her Mom or Dad, once she is an adult it's her problem. You should never ever tell her what she can do or not do. If you don't like it , get another girlfriend.

[mb120101]

If you want a good relationship I would trust her and leave it be. Accusations and trust issues start problems. If something truly doesn't seem right then I would investigate but that will open Pandoras Box

[Asker]

Suggest me ways to investigate, should i check her phone?

[mb120101]

Probably not the classiest but yeah I've done that myself honestly. Wait for sleep and take it to the bathroom👌. Its not nice but if you think she's playing you then its your best option. If you dont see anything I would leave it alone

[Asker]

We live separately, so i won’t be able to do that, should i ask her for her phone?

[mb120101]

No that would be a huge mistake. If you can't look and you love her I would trust her. You will ruin the dynamic if you question her

[Asker]

You’re right, I don't know what to do i trust her but this thing is bothering me

[mb120101]

If it is truly killing you then I would just ask about her training frequently and if it triggers her then thats your answer (she's hiding something) . If she can casually talk about it I would trust her

[Asker]

Guess what bro, yesterday she asked me if her trainer is bothering me, she even asked me if it’s bothering we can change ke gym and start working out together xD

[spartan55]

Dude trainers are on par with firefighters and bartenders as the biggest man whores out there.
Have you seen the way he touches her? Have you met meathead?

[DextroShade]

She is either fucking that guy or will soon. Tell her to get a new, female trainer or be single.

[Anonymous]

Dump her