It’s a turn off when the guy I’m dating likes girls pics on instagram. Just found that my boyfriend does that, and lost a lot of interest in him?

[Hello4242]

He hasn’t since we’ve been together. I am just really turned off by that behavior- creeping on girls and liking their pics. I find it really gross and perverted. Even tho I know that’s the norm these days, it’s just something I find repulsive. Now that I noticed my boyfriend has done that, and with one girl has liked pretty much all her pics, I’m really grossed out by him. What should I do?

[amxshh]

Actually depends on your trust and knowledge in him , you could simply ask about those girls , if he transparent about them and all are old people or or in friendszone , i don’t think it’s a huge person
I guess what matters more are the followers and followbacks , because I discovered my ex was talking in love with 5 different guys , so yeeahh chats and follow list matters moree

[Hello4242]

I mean, they’re attractive girls. So, obviously he’s looking at them as more then just a friend. I also don’t know how to bring this up because then I’m pretty much admitting to stalking him. I don’t think he’s talking to them, and these likes were before we were together. I just find it really off-putting when guys like girls pictures of attractive girls, like they’re obviously checking them out.

[Hello4242]

It’s kind of like that’s what he’s doing with his time.. it’s just a really big turn off.

[amxshh]

Ohhh wow I get you, I think the best to do is turning him on again, he is not cheating but maybe feeling bored or getting in routine or something, you can’t control his eyes but at least you can control his feelings toward you, you try being attractive try to do anything that can turn him on

[MackBoy]

He is bored and he wants to get rid of it by seeing interesting things like that, even I see girls pic if I am bored. so you have to satisfy him and prevent him from seeing those pics.

[Danny_dan92]

Do you post thirst traps yourself?

[mommymommymommy]

I'm sorry you feel you need to control him

[eagle1951]

guess he forgot what he already had