What would you do in my situation, I can't move on?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating this man, we agreed to a relationship but I feel like he's hot and cold. I also see him staring at girls and feel disrespected by that. He doesn't really prioritize me as he always wants to hang out at night. He says he has work and gym and can't find other time for me. We always have sex and cuddle at his place. When I ask him he says im the only one he has. He also texted me a lot before, everything nonsexual. I don't know if i should move on but I really love him and whenever I try to block him I just end up unblocking. And then he will message me

[Anonymous]

It doesn't sound like you want to break up even though you probably should.

[Asker]

yeah i don't know what to do :(, I feel like I won't find somebody as cute as him. I know looks isn't everything but I'm way too attached

[fantasticass]

I would leave the relationship. He doesn't respect you. He probably has a lot of girlfriends, not just you. Go find someone who will treat you with respect. 😎

[Asker]

True it’s so hard 😭 i loved him so much I can’t believe we experienced so much together and he still betrayed me

[Anonymous]

Have you tried discussing all of your feelings with him? It's always best to communicate your needs and wants to find solutions together. If his only free time is at night, have you thought of going on dates that work at night - like a camping/bbq and walking at beaches or trying to cook at home? Do you want something more sexual from his texts? You could express about that or initiate it.