Girls, is a 30 year old guy who’s not a virgin but has never been in a relationship or dated anyone a dealbreaker? (Page 2)

[Trickyvicky]

I think it depends. Were you focused on education or making money and didn’t have time to date? Did you have anxiety surrounding it? I think everything is a spectrum

[Asker]

Its because I had my confidence consistently undermined throughout the years by my friends and family, and were also ridiculed by those same people for not having a girlfriend to the point that it made me feel so bad that I couldn’t even ask anyone out. And now I never even meet any women and haven’t in years.

[Trickyvicky]

Then no in my opinion it shouldn’t be a deal breaker

[Asker]

So you think that’s an understandable reason for why I don’t have much experience?

[Trickyvicky]

Yes I do.

[Apple1996]

Yes the hookup thing is icky. Wouldn't get with someone that has ever done a random hook-up

[Anonymous]

Dealbreaker for me because you had ons, I don't care about inexperience but I'm against ons.

[Potatospicemeup]

You should first know the person before them. This guy might be toxic or maybe he just hasn't found his perfect match, he should be given a chance...

[Asker]

Well for me, its because I had my confidence consistently undermined throughout the years by my friends and family, and was also ridiculed by those same people for not having a girlfriend to the point that it made him feel so bad that he couldn’t even ask anyone out. And now I never even meet any women and haven’t in years. I had no guidance when it came to this when I was younger, only mockery and ridicule.

[Jazzy54]

That would depend. If he’s truly ready for a serious relationship, I’d give him a chance. 😊

[MilkRoseTea]

I'm not interested in guys that have hookups. STD's and STIs are gross.

[TrueMystique]

There’s nothing wrong with that. Dating is so difficult. I’m still trying to find my person.

[Anonymous]

You’re not totally inexperienced. You’ve had two hookups, which is two more than I have.

[anon1903]

Nope. Sorry. Quite creepy.

[Asker]

Its creepy even though the reason I ended up in this situation is by reason of circumstance?

[anon1903]

Yes (...)

[Asker]

I bet you’re someone who if the role was reversed and a man found your lack of experience creepy, you would be throwing a temper tantrum.

[anon1903]

No, I'm embarrassed too. I'm a 22yo virgin. It's creepy men want me.

[LazerBean]

Yes, not being a virgin is a deal breaker.