After 2 dates, he seems to be in a rush to get some kind of commitment from you. He's stupid for not just having more pleasant dates and letting things develop naturally.
It doesn't sound like he cares if you are in an "official" relationship or not. He's just trying to get into your pants. He would be willing to say it's official just to fuck you, but could you trust him to actually be committed?
Does he admire and respect you? It doesn't sound like it in light of having ignored what you had previously told him.
Does he actually want an exclusive, long-term relationship? If he did, he would have done a better job of gauging your feelings before asking leading questions about sex, ESPECIALLY your body count.
I tend to think that he is young, horny and inept with women, and probably doesn't respect them much.
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You are only upset because you are ashamed of the number; if you were a virgin or only had sex with one guy you wouldn't have been bothered much by this question. Men and women look for different things in a partner: women want a man who is strong and successful while men want a woman who is pretty and not a hoe. I'm sure you asked him about his career or financial situation at some point and he didn't get offended. Just as you don't want a bum he doesn't want a hoe. We are all entitled to our preferences.
He obviously just wants to have sex and he asked the second question to see if you are going to make him go through trouble of getting sex from you because that’s all he wants from this situation.
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For some guys it’s a make or break deal. It’s not uncommon for people to have triple digits these days and personally I would want to know, I might wait a little longer to ask, try to suss it out through other less obvious questions. But maybe he was just trying to get it out of the way. I could be wrong, but I don’t think most guys would be worried about going through the work getting into an “official” relationship just to sleep with and then dump a girl, unless they’re psychos doing it for an ego trip.
If he's about your age, then in 6 years, he had 9 relationships.
This means in average, a new girl about 8 months.
I wonder if your time is about up? You answer. 😭
I mean being insecure about other's bodycount only makes sense if yours is 0. Maybe he is lying about his? Anyways he fumbled the bag with weird questions.
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