I cheated on a girl and treated her like an option for three years. Kept her in a third party situation and kept her in the dark?

[Anonymous]

I am a guy using my friend's profile for this query. This past person used to be madly in love with me. Now that i try to talk she doesn't. She is aware of my deception. Though She hasn't been with anyone after me for so many years. But she refuses to meet me. Says she doesn't trust me and doesn't want anything casual so she didn't go out with anyone. She thinks i text her or call her only for sex. I text her once every 6-8 months and everytime she turns me down.

But finally I convinced her to meet me and asked where her new place was. She finally told me and said "if you have to visit, visit with your parents or don't visit at all" what is that about? she and i both live with our parents in a joint family. But is it about coming only with your parents?

[Avicenna]

You should not have contacted her again. Move on.

[Anonymous]

She is a human being with feelings and emotions. And you hurt her. You didn’t treat her like an option, you treated her like trash. Disposable. Replaceable. Worthless.
And you wonder why she doesn’t trust you? Why she doesn’t want to see you?

My dude, you blew it. Leave the poor girl alone. She doesn’t want to meet you. She doesn’t want anything to do with you. Take the hint and leave her alone.

[Anemone978]

She doesn't want to meet you.. unless you got a marriage proposal for her, so bring your parents LOL just kidding. You are a douche.. Leave the poor girl alone and delete her number..

[Asker]

What kind of woman is that. Either marriage or no sex?

[Anemone978]

You won't commit to her period so just leave her alone.. She wasted 3 years on you she don't need to waste more.. but it feels like you are just Trolling so no point telling you anything anyways..