because everyone who is giving him attention isn't really adding to his experiance. they are only really crushes that aren't realisticly going anywhere
Girls in general should him attention so he can figure out what the fuck he wants. Isolating him will make it worse.
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He appreciates every girl that wants him and would settle for the one that pays him most attention because he is starved for affection. But I think in a few years he will mature and have higher standards thats why Im afraid to make a move
Look, if what you’re saying is true, I understand this guy because I was/am this kind of guy. Though I think my moral base is stronger than his. I have broken hearts before for just the reasons you mentioned. My advice, be his friend. Society can either elevate him to where he should be or smother him because someone can’t stand to not have him. That’s the way love works, you let it go. Control it, and it will rebel.
Remember what this site is. Generally, there’s a lot of lonely involuntary virgin dudes and a lot of skanky sluts running their mouths here. I won’t get into the other political shit. You can tumble down the rabbit hole of my takes and opinions if you dare.
If you cared for him, that’s the thing to do. He needs to learn that he doesn’t have to love or fuck a girl just to get their attention. It’s healthier for him.
Thats a very good question actually. I wouldn't cut him off, but i wouldn't let my guard down either. Until he proves to you that he loves you for you and not because he likes the thought of you loving him. Definitely dont move too fast.
Yeah, he's probably the easiest for you to manipulate.
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I don’t Want to manipulate him and tbh I would prefer it if he was more confident and picky because it’s not flattering to be liked solely because you pay someone attention
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honestly somebody has to be his first.
if it isn't you, it will be somebody else. but the way he is going it won't be for a long while
Why? That makes you think it won't be going for a long while?
because everyone who is giving him attention isn't really adding to his experiance.
they are only really crushes that aren't realisticly going anywhere
Yes but what makes you think that we wouldn't be perfect together once we dated? :DD
thats up to you but bear in mind he is probally a virgin.
Girls in general should him attention so he can figure out what the fuck he wants. Isolating him will make it worse.
He appreciates every girl that wants him and would settle for the one that pays him most attention because he is starved for affection. But I think in a few years he will mature and have higher standards thats why Im afraid to make a move
It’s called friendship. You don’t have to fuck him to talk to him.
I don't want to be his friend
And he doesn't want friendship from any girl either
Look, if what you’re saying is true, I understand this guy because I was/am this kind of guy. Though I think my moral base is stronger than his. I have broken hearts before for just the reasons you mentioned. My advice, be his friend. Society can either elevate him to where he should be or smother him because someone can’t stand to not have him. That’s the way love works, you let it go. Control it, and it will rebel.
Remember what this site is. Generally, there’s a lot of lonely involuntary virgin dudes and a lot of skanky sluts running their mouths here. I won’t get into the other political shit. You can tumble down the rabbit hole of my takes and opinions if you dare.
If you cared for him, that’s the thing to do. He needs to learn that he doesn’t have to love or fuck a girl just to get their attention. It’s healthier for him.
Thats a very good question actually. I wouldn't cut him off, but i wouldn't let my guard down either. Until he proves to you that he loves you for you and not because he likes the thought of you loving him. Definitely dont move too fast.
That's not falling in love that's being delusional. It takes time to fall in love with someone. I would say no, do not date him.
thats why u want him right because other women want him, and you want what they want because your a follower
No wrong
Did you read what you posted lol i mean really I’ll say yes if you hate yourself and desperate
So , you're basically gambling... it could be because of you being you , or just because you choose him... not a very good idea if you ask me..
I think getting advise from strangers is a bad idea. Do what you feel in your heart. Don't worry about what other people think.
Honest opinion? No you shouldn't or at least its best you don't if you don't wish to get hurt.
I don't know why you would bother with this nonsense
Yes if he gets attention he will annoy you with attention and ever lasting supply
what supply?
Affection
Yeah, he's probably the easiest for you to manipulate.
I don’t Want to manipulate him and tbh I would prefer it if he was more confident and picky because it’s not flattering to be liked solely because you pay someone attention
Guy’s can grow out of their eagerness with experience.
No! If attention causes him to fall in love yhen he clearly doesn’t know what love is.
first of all.. we all are human. He is not a god.
Beads are not given to anyone with a temperamental appetite...
that should be an easy no.
Why?
"he worships every girl that shows the tiniest amount of interest in him"
Yeah because he was never in a relationship
I say nope. Falling in love is pretty substantial.
He sounds like a simp.
He is but he might not be in the future
You should get him Myron Gaines' book "Why Women Deserve Less"
certainly not
I wouldn't date him because I'm not gay.