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I have suffered badly from unrequited love from my abusive Ex-wife. It took me 10 years of therapy to get over her.
It's clear to me that there is more than unrequited love here. You clearly show a hostility to this woman which can only be released by some good CBT. If you truly want to be free of her, then seek out a mental health counselor.
oh man that sounds rough.. Im not hostile towards her as such, just coming full circle as to what she is. So I can make a boundary around myself. To protect myself more than anything.
How about seen a mental health specialist. Start with a psychologist.
Imagine your hearth—literally—is giving you trouble. Are you gonna sit, wondering what it is? Same goes for our mind. If we can't feel at peace with our reality or ourself, a mental health specialist is required.
Focus on You and Your Own Life. No More Wasting Your Time on Someone Who Doesn't Care. Welcome to Gag and Best of Luck. xxoo
Damn, son. A lot of things going on here.
I feel you, though.
Lolz Son, he is your age 🤣.
He probably met a few misadventures in his relationships.
I don't want to say it but may be it would be a good idea if this guy joined the International bros movement and married someone from perhaps Africa or Asia where he will probably be treated much better If he just tried. Thing is this guy will not try what I have just said. They never do it. Neither him nor my friends they just cry about it later on on. It's just pathetic
@AmeerX "Damn, son" is just an American expression. Lol
@AmeerX ‘’You don’t want to say it’’ … Why’s that then Mr fucking brilliant?
@Jamie05rhs never cease to amaze 🤣🙈
@unlockme hey man, go to some Asian country and marry an Asian woman. You are just upset and everyone keeps saying you need therapy but all you need is a good loving woman. My uncle's daughter married an American. She highly educated and they are happy together. Truth is she was already in US by that time working there.
In therapy you will just be getting pills and a therapist giving you advice. Medicine helps of course, no shame in it but it's ridiculous because you have needs man. You need a family too. If you even make remotely average American salary you have nothing to worry. So, go and live your life with someone you need to.
I hope you are not overly prude Nordic American supremacist otherwise you have solution there too, a probably go to Ukraine or Eastern Europe to marry.
I am telling you, you will be surprised that the most wonderful woman is living probably off the Instagram 🤣🤣🤣.
And no, I am not Mr fucking brilliant because I don't have same powers of persuasion as a lovely dear woman, otherwise things would be really different.
You can PM if you like to talk about anything but that is really what I think you need to do.
You can find someone within a week. If you are hoping for a girl that guys better than you can get, you are wasting your time and annoying the girls you approach.
No man is better than me
It’s hard in the e beginning but it’ll slowly go away over time the more you talk to other people
thanks :)
As cliche as it sounds, go to the gym and work out. It will release endorphins to make you feel better, get your mind off girls, and get you in better shape.
yea man i work out everyday. best thing to do
Right on. I do too. I just do the treadmill, but I do 70 minutes every day.
I chase shit flys around my house like a wild man.. keeps me busy.
You have an obsession which is not healthy and you won't get any help from the Internet. You lack the tools to deal with this. You need professional help. Invest in some.
Its not obsession. Its responsibility. I have figure this shit out unlike you dim bats where nothing matters.
Ignore the solution if you wish. You'll pine till you die alone.
My pine is fine cheers
Add a dictionary to your list of requirements.
Sure thing pinocchio
i thought this about the last guy but I've since met someone new!
cg :)
early stages so far but im hoping for a better outcome than the last lol i really struggled getting over the last guy
yea makes you stronger
Stop trying. Work on yourself and work on the things that matter. She will notice you and come to you.
Have you heard of the saying, "when you're not searching, it's when you get the answers" (totally butchered that line)
You have to work your own magic. We all have girls we remember. The ones I remember are the ones I wanted to have sex with but didn't get to.
why not just leave her as she isn't loving or caring for u honey
I don't know, some people really get a hold on others it seems.
magic no. just use logic, you barely saw or talked anyway so search for better.
If those are the kinds of things you call women, maybe you should stop trying to date and work on yourself and on how treat others. I'm not saying anything other than that.
Give your own life the importance it deserves.
You're not in a relationship with her. Accept that. Anything else is creepy AF.
Just go use a bride service to find someone you want to marry instead of long waits and stuff.
sounds like your problem essentially is you have weak character.
Sadly that cannot be rectified.
No idea whats stopping you from avoiding this chick permanently but then i dont have weak charcter
one caveat- the chick may be using witchcraft, In that case you'll need to address tat before leaving her
chicks often use witchcraft. Also love poison
u have more luck overseas, women in usa want to be dominant, why makes absolutely no sense for any woman to be alpha but here we are