Is it wrong to avoid the friend zone?

[Anonymous]

Personally I hate it, I matrix that shit, do y'all avoid the friend zone as well? I don't understand how people can be alright with that, so it left me wondering, is it wrong to avoid the friend zone? I personally just don't like to be in the friend zone so I'm guilty of letting down friendships with women I'm interested in, I know it's kinda foul in a way because it's still a form of rejection to reject friendships but I don't feel like it's a place for a dude tbh or anyone for that matter, I've known some that had it bad, they stick in the friendzone then hear the chick they have a crush on telling them their stories about other dudes and even how they fuck others, sounds like torture to me, no thank you 😂

[Drewtate]

Have girls that are friends sure but don't be a simp. Avoid the simp zone. A friend will help you, a girl who's friends with you can and should help you with other women.

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[Still-alive]

If you do it with every ‘hot’ girl its kinda bad lol.

but however if you genuinely are attracted to her then its better for you to be honest with her about it and not be ‘just friends’ with her because you know you can’t. I think she would respect that then pretending to be her friend only to try to get with her later. It feels like a betrayal to a lot of women doing it like that.

so just be frank with them then leave. Let them decide what to do about it.

[Asker]

If a woman throws you in the friend zone I think it's safe to say you aren't her type

[Lisia]

I don't think so.. but if every guy thought that way I wouldn't have been able to have any guy friends 'cause the only reason they wanted to get to know me was because they liked me

[Asker]

I think genuine opposite gendered friendships are rare, mostly when the person is an attractive individual, I guarantee if you go up to any guy friend of yours and tell them you broke up with your boyfriend and you are enjoying your freedom or Whatever, their behavior towards you will change, unless people grow up together, most of the time I don't think they intentions of opposite gendered friends are pure, but who knows, maybe it's the area I'm in but I doubt it

[Lisia]

Yeah exactly that's why I don't trust opposite sex friendships tbh. Usually there is something going on

[Asker]

Indeed

[Anonymous]

How is that foul? She's slapping you in the face with the "friend" word and disrespecting you. She's not being honest with you and telling you straight to your face she doesn't want nothing to do with you.

You don't owe her any respect. This is the reason why women put you in the friendzone in the first place. You treating her like a queen when she didn't do anything to deserve that respect from you. You cannot be kissing her ass just because she's a proud owner of a vagina.

You need to have more respect for yourself. Don't be a wuss and care about her feelings when she don't are about you. Come on man you need to man up.

[NathanDavis]

I have never pretended to be friends with anybody I didn't want to be friends...

they're either my girlfriends or my girl, friends... nothing in between

[Asker]

Faire enough