What are the things about people on dating apps you swipe left on?

[Monalisa77]

Only started using them but im interested in yours

Smoking
Has kids/dogs (i like them but dont want to live with them)
Tattoos
Beards
Anything to do with coffee, curry etc
Spelling errors
Anything that doesn't make sense /makes them a bit of a hypocrite
Guys that put pics in with girls (like why?)
Dont smile in pics
Only have 1 pic up that i can barely make out what they look like and they have group pics of different men whats the pt
Too far away
Theyre way outa my league and wouldn't suit me at all

Updates

4 mo

face coverings anywhere in the picsany hint of ons (I've also deleted people who've hinted this in the chat after matching) pics where theyve no clothes onforgot about piercings they put me off loland it seems im put off by lots of drinking pics touching other people in places i dont wanna see

[wolfcat87]

Pictures with partying
Ghetto style
Flipping off camera
Bad Grammar
No description
Flashing money
Smoking and drug culture
Anything negative about women
Mentioning of cheap dates
Men who try to sucker you with dog and baby pictures
Pictures of dead animals they hunted or fished
Bad pictures
Don't look clean or well groomed
Little effort into profile
Depressing
Angry
Hanging out in clubs and bars
Repulsive
Sex oriented
Looking for short term
In relationships
Racism
Pro Trump
Overly patriotic and/or military obsessed
Pro Abortion
Playing the pronoun game (it's fine, but I can't be bothered to care and participate)
Extremist views
Overly religious
Rules/requirements about women on their page
Rants
Gross tongue
Gross bed/body pictures
They travel for work
They look boring
They look creepy or dangerous
Dirty house/room/vehicle interior in background
Anything that indicates we are incompatible


That's probably not everything. I'm picky.

[RedInnocent68]

All seems legit. LOL at ‘gross tongue’. 😂

[Chikky]

I generally look at looks and the bio. How you introduce yourself. I prefer the ones with a funny intro

[Anonymous]

1. If she negative.

2. If she says "don't talk sexual to her". Or if she says "don't send her 🍆 pics".

3. If she's has oversexualized pics (gratuitous cleavage shots or pics that show too much skin). Basically anything in bad taste.

4. If she says "I'm just here to see what's out here". I'm on site to date and hopefully build a lasting relationship. If she's doesn't even know why she's there I don't want to talk to her.

Also if she says "we can say we met somewhere else". That means she considers herself above online dating, and I'm not interested.

5. If she has a height requirement. I'm not interested.

6. If she has and education requirement. I'm not interested

7. If she has a income requirement. I'm not interested.

Basically if I get the feeling she's not seriously looking. I'm not interested.

[Monalisa77]

Sob+ you dont mind dating someone tiny?

[Opinion Owner]

Height is irrelevant. I mean I probably draw the line at dwarfism... I don't know. I've never had an interaction with a woman who was an actual dwarf.

[sawno]

Reading trough this sums up why dating apps will be the last thing I try. Its just not something ill flourish in. I'm not a fan of taking pictures of myself so any pic would be staged just for the profile. Most girls commenting here already had a shallow reason on why I don't make the cut or a valid reason on why they don't fit me.

The whole concept of judging someone on a still image and a description that no matter what I write won't do me justice is just wrong to me. Its like ill be written off before they even try to find out if I am a decent guy.

[Monalisa77]

Im chatting to a guy atm and I've only been on 2 days, we have stuff in common and i think he's cute n seems nice. You can use any pics doesn't have to be a pic you took

[AviatorTom]

I stopped swiping several years ago, after I met my SO on a dating site.

I used to swipe left or ight based solely on a woman's looks, in particular her eyes. If she looked good, I swiped right, otherwise left.

[tzdc21]

• Not Smiling
• Has kids
• Flips off the camera
• Has lots of piercings
• Is pro trump
• Has only pictures of their dog (I'm here to date them, not their dog.)
• Phone always blocks their face
• They aren't verified
• Smoking
• Too many tattoos
• Filters on every picture
• Is fat (I'm sorry but it's very unattractive.)
• No description or hobbies
• Bad Grammar
• Dressed too provocatively in most photos
• Only has one photo

[Anonymous]

I swipe the no thank you next yes Ariana grade refrence lol anywho I swipe left if they only care about six no future no ambition don't want kids don't want marriagevexpect woman to be mo. Not wide lazy rude they look boring they have no profile picture umm their bio is half assed

I swipe right on the ones with good seeming personality and looks!

Never need to swipe again I prefer my meeting my lover in person means more ti me you do u good luck matching happy holidays 2023

[Monalisa77]

I prefer meeting irl too but ain't gonna happen lol

[blissinanarchy1]

Any kids.

"Sex positivity" which is usually only on Bumble" She's a thot.

Transgender.

Showing off her ass.

Doesn't take care of herself.

Man in her pics.

Confederate flags.

Height requirements (I'm 6'3, but it's the principle).

I'll unmatch for leaving me on open for more than a day.

[genericname85]

honestly i don't read anything. i just swipe by looks alone. it's not that i'm superficial like that, it's just that as a man you barely get matches and even less replies. so it's not worth wasting the time reading the bio of someone who isn't gonna match or reply anyway. so i only read the bio after matching and if i don't like it, i then unmatch.

[Joshydavid25]

-Anything too political far left or far right.

-Anything too negative about the opposite sex.

-If she has too many piercings and tattoos

-Onlyfans creators looking for more subs

-Height requirements.

-Too Hood..

I don't use apps much, but when I do that's what I usually swipe left on.. Probably a few more as well..

[TacosRAwesome]

- Smoking and too much drinking

- group pics unless everyone is attractive

- party pics

- sunglasses and hats in most pics

- kids

- too sporty or too lazy

- have a woe is me women don't date nice guys paragraph

[Minahh]

Dog person
Wants kids or has them
Too old
Looking for a hookup or is in an open relationship
Height (too short or too tall)
Shirtless or any other pics that indicate he's a hoe
Any misogynistic or sexist quote

[love_conquers_lust]

Haven't done it in awhile:

Smoking or illegal drugs. Marijuana is also unacceptable.

Not a biological woman

Excessive drinker

Nonsensical profile, snotty attitude

Group pics with friends while I'm trying to guess who owns the profile was annoyimg

In horrible shape, clearly doesn't take care of body or care enough about BMI to do anything about it

I find the M:F ratio skewed too high. Women are too slow getting onto those things.

[Anonymous]

As I'm a bigger fatter guy swipe left half the time due to knowing full well she would not go for me but also knowing I would go for them be cause sometimes you can tell by the picture that they are self involved with their looks or looking for a more fitter guy.

[sawno]

Isn't that a terrible idea? You can swipe right knowing she won't swipe left but why shoot yourself in the foot?

[Opinion Owner]

Because you only get a limitied number of right swipes so I'm just being realistic

[Monalisa77]

Not on badoo I've been swiping right all week on free version

[sawno]

In that case it makes perfect sense, I thought it was unlimited.

[Opinion Owner]

If you pay yes

[Monalisa77]

I've not paid, badoo is free to swipe as muxh as u want

[Anonymous]

I will pass on them if they are:Far left leaning
Too over weight
Feminist
Has a penis
Looks miserable
Too far away
Uses profanity
Makes toxic posts
Has a bio that hates on all men
Dresses like a slut
supports all the movements that society tells them too.
And if they give off sheep vibes.

[Monalisa77]

What is sheep vibes

[Opinion Owner]

Basically if they’re profile is a regurgitation of something else. I’ll flip through tons of people and see the same exact patterns over and over again and all I can think is that it’s the programming of the masses.

[BourbonAndBacon]

• cats
• anything political
• filters
• 420 friendly
• strong and independent
• sapiosexual
• if they aren't smiling in every pic
• if there's nothing that shows a sense of humor

[getwiththepg]

Jesus did you just eliminate all options? You had a laundry list of things you wouldn’t accept & then at the end said even if they look out of your league you wouldn’t swipe right.

[Monalisa77]

Lol I've swiped right a ot of times actually and was chatting to a guy he's not been online sinc elast night tho

[Monalisa77]

I know i have a lot of typos when i type quickly but i make sure i dont have any when its something important

[007kingifrit]

i swipe no on blank profiles,

profiles with really generic things,

left wing extremists who tell everyone else to gtfo,

profiles that talk about sports too much

profiles that talk about dogs too much

[Nikki1989]

Any guy who needs a dating app is probably not worth dating anyway.

[Monalisa77]

Well i know nice guys who use them

[ProbablyClueless]

Any kind of "I'll like your dog more than I like you" joke.

[tstarr17]

Dating apps are a waste of time for anybody. They're like window shopping, you don't get talked to if you're not the best looking person. Plus, they could also just be using it for hookups.

[msc545]

Women with no education and too many requirements. Overweight women.

[Monalisa77]

I've got an education bit there's no option for my level

[MikeTheBartender]

No full body photos.

[Unit1]

Women are never happy.