Guys, Do guys actually like when someone else makes the first move? Or do they like making the first move themselves?

[Bugmilk1]

I'm really curious if that's a thing that guys actually like to do but of course enjoy when others do things for them first.

[caring__1]

Guys aren't mind readers. They appreciate when a girl shows interest, as long as she doesn't come across too aggressive in her approach. You're just opening the door; it's up to him to determine if he wants to walk through or not. Not everyone you see as an opportunity will see you as an opportunity. Don't take it personally. It's a statement of that person's preferences, what he's discovered or believes would work best for him, having nothing to do with your personal value.

You can't lose something you never had, so don't miss out on opportunities out of fear of rejection. If you go to the animal shelter to pick a new pet, look at all the pets you overlooked before you chose the one you felt most connected to. You held no negative thoughts on the ones you passed by, and they eagerly awaited the one person who would connect best with them, not taking your choice as a negative statement about them. We only limit our opportunities by not opening doors.

[Avicenna]

It depends on the situation, how she makes the first move, and whether she is interested.

[Whitewulf]

I love it when a girl makes the first move. Assuming you are talking about her coming and saying hi, introducing herself. When this has happened there has always been some sort of eye contact of unspoken interest between us. But just like women, men do not like to be rejected either. So her making the initial move takes all the pressure off us.

[Berethor]

If the guy is not social then it easier when the other side is doing that.

[Iron_Man]

I like it when she shows interest, and when I get upset, she Perseus me than I’ll take care of the rest

[Anonymous]

I see this always being one-sided

[Tim2nice]

I do