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Nope! Why settle?
Be content with your own self first. Unless misery loves company?
12+ years of solitude is very enjoyable.
Ditto here šššš«£
Yep. Relationships are a game of compromises.
I am sure that it happens. I think it does not happen as much as people may think.
I think anyone who has an idealistic picture of a future mate will of necessity be settling in one way or another.
I agree
Everyone tries to attain the best partner they can
In the end they stop looking and stay with what they have
"Bird in the hand worth two in the bush"
I think most people misunderstand āsettlingā and disregarding what you want in a relationship.
Pretty much every woman who gets married at age 29+ believes she is settling.
Id like to argue that it goes beyond that age. To 36+. From what I have noticed in women. They started to act desperate and date douchebags just cus they want kids.
@picachixa "Douche bags", meaning guys who aren't "Chad's" and actually love her.
Douchebags don't mean people that love them. There usually just guys that treat them like garbage and then they divorce in a few years
Guys that actually want love don't go for desperate girls
True though if a guy is 4ā11ā and below average looking, bald, not well endowed, stuck in a dead end job, what girl would go for him? Pretty much only desperate girls with no other optionsā¦
Trust me Iād love to be proven wrong though
I guess. But the same you could say for a woman that is 38, over weight , stuck in a dead end job, desperate to have kids. Who gonna go for that? Normally the getto ass dudes that just hits it and dip.
The overweight would be the biggest issue for meā¦the dead end job I wouldnāt care about as long as she didnāt expect me to pay for everything
I was talking about the desperation of her situation. Usually these women are desperate. So they go for dudes that treat them like dirt. The attractive guys that never got married cus no girl wants them for their childish behaviors. The type of dudes y'all talking about usually go to third world countries and get a girl that will stay for a visa and money š
Sounds like the guys are the desperate not the girls in this situation
Naw. From what I have seen. These douchebags I speak of usually run around fucking other women and come home to a nice cooked meal š
Damn
I know a lady that did this and she was with a guy that would leave her for months at a time, just disappear , and she would work and stay with the kids , payed all their bills and she just accepted him everytime. She was this 42 year old obese lady. I asked her "why don't you just divorce" and she said it was cus noone was gonna be with her.
Maybe if she lost weight that would change? Or did she have a medical condition preventing that?
All relationships are settling. Why do you think so many people want to marry
It really depends on the motives of long term romantic partnerships
My father once told me that āmarriage is the end of hopeā.
I would never settle for less.
Howās that working for ya?
Great
Do you have lower standards? Or are there just a lot of tall guys with full heads of hair and big dicks making good money everywhere around you?
My ex was exactly my type and no i have high standards
And yet heās your ex?
I won't explain something that is so private š
I think most women do.
Absolutely true.
You really need to go out and touch grass.
You could have dmād me if you have a problem with something I saidā¦
I was answering your question.
It didnāt answer the question, you were just trying to ridicule me. An answer would be: āNo thatās not true in my experience, people usually date someone who meets all their physical idealsā, or āYes that is true from what Iāve seen, people usually arenāt dating people who fully satisfy them physicallyā etc
I did answer your question. Obviously it's ridiculous to think that an entire population settles.
Ok not literally everybodyā¦a guy like Chris Hemsworth or a girl like Megan Fox probably doesnāt have to settle, but in general Iād say Iām right
Lol Megan Fox married that guy named Machine gun Kelly. š¤£šš He's literally an ugly wimpy guy.
Bad example, buddy.
Not sure which Hemsworth is thatš¤·š»āāļø
I just was picking examples of conventionally attractive people, I wasnāt isolating them specifically. My point is if you are conventionally attractive you will never be settled for, but everybody elseā¦
I don't think she's attractive. She looks like a witch and has nasty feet.
You literally said she didn't settle. Then why did she marry an ugly looking man with zero muscle definition and a girly looking face? It contradicts what you said.
*CONVENTIONALLY attractive. That does mean literally everybody finds them attractiveā¦just a vast majority
You still didn't answer my question. Why is this so called conventionally attractive person with an ugly looking man if she's so called conventionally attractive? Why did she settle for an ugly guy? Hmmm?
You contradicted yourself.
Heās tall first of all, and heās not ugly according to most women, against just because you find him unattractive doesnāt mean he is
He is unattractive according to the golden ratio š just because the women u know like him doesn't mean he's attractive. Tall guys can be ugly too welcome to reality.
Where did you find that info about the golden ratio? Donāt you need to know the measurements of his face to even evaluate him with the golden ratio?
He has a crooked face š
So? I donāt have a perfectly symmetrical face, but I donāt think Iām super uglyā¦
Nah ur cute. I just think he's ugly.
Ok thatās fairā¦alright maybe she wasnāt the best example, but my point still stands that there are some exceptionally attractive people out there who donāt have to settle, but youāre never gonna see someone who looks like George Constanza IRL with an attractive women unless the guy has money or fame
So he can only date ugly or average women?
I doubt even average women would go for him unless he had above average income
So then how is he supposed to settle?
An ugly woman basically.
Wow so he can't date a pretty woman?
If a pretty woman is interested in him sure why not. Iām just saying he MAY have no other option but to date an ugly woman if no pretty women are interested in him. I mean look, if no pretty women are interested in me, and I still have hair, I donāt see a short, fat, bald guy with allegedly a small dick scoring a hottie, especially since heās frequently unemployed. But what do I know, in the show he dated tons of women so maybe Iām wrong lol.
I think personality has a lot to do with it. I like intelligent nerdy guys that smile/laugh easily.
Then you definitely wouldnāt be into George costanza, according to the show heās below average in intelligence, although when he went without sex for a while he became genius, so actually he would have been perfect for you lol
Ew no he's ugly. I'm talking about cute nerdy guys.
I thought you didnāt mind baldness? Or is his face that turns you off?
His face is unattractive
Oof RIP me someone said I looked like George Constanza with hair before lol
No you don't š¤£
Whatās different about the appearance besides the hair lol? We are both short and stocky (although Iām a little bit taller and in somewhat better shape) and I donāt currently wear glasses but I did when I was a kid.
You have a cute face š
Soā¦George Constanza would have to get plastic surgery to get with you lol?
No. I don't like plastic surgery. George Constanza can find someone that likes him for his personality and face but I ain't that girl.
Does that include like hair transplants and Botox or just like no facelifts, nose jobs etc?
That includes hair transplants and botow
So youād rather your guy go bald and get wrinkly?
Dude. Everyone gets old
Yeah I knowā¦Iām not super pro plastic surgery or anything, but just so you know pretty much all celebrities have had work done.
And? I don't give a crap about celebrities.
Alright fair. So where do you intend to find this cute nerdy guy?
I'm not looking for a boyfriend.
When do you wanna get married? Only asking cause I know women only can have kids under a certain age, or do you intend to adopt?
Why?
You donāt have to answer I was just wondering since you had mentioned you were waiting until marriage so I assumed that meant you wanted kids? If not, thatās my bad for assuming thingsā¦
Lol why does it matter?
Well because unless you wanna adopt you canāt have kids biologically after a certain age so that is something to consider unless you are planning on freezing your eggs.
I mean why does it matter to you. You're a stranger.
It doesnāt. Technically none of this matters to meā¦but this sub does revolve around asking questions does it not?
Yeah question that matter š
There are no dumb questionsā¦just dumb answers.
Nah bro there are lots of dumb questions.
Agree to disagree
It's not settling. It's called compromising.
It's totally up to her she might like shorter guys
Yeah they do
Are there certain characteristics you are more willing to compromise on than others, like height, dick size, baldness, income, etc?
Yes I think so