Why is Wanting to Date a Woman with Lots of Free time a Bad Thing?

[Shiningtempest]

I am asking this question because I am baffled why some GaG user called me needy for preferring to date a woman with lots of free time. I value having a lot of free time because I want to spend quality of time bonding over shared interest in anime. Thus, a career driven or ambitious woman wouldn't be compatible with my lifestyle.

[HelpfulWoman]

Yeah. so here's the thing.
it's all about "your wants". you just want to binge anime rather than actually adulting. Now, I get anime as it can be addicting. But that also shouldn't be your only source of "bonding".
It's a amber flag at the least frankly.

[Shiningtempest]

@helpfulwoman Dating is meaningless if I can't spend quality of time enjoying same interest in anime together.

[HelpfulWoman]

And there's more immaturity and red flags showing.

[Shiningtempest]

@helpfulwoman It's not immaturity to know what I value in dating.

[HelpfulWoman]

Valuing anime over the rest of a person or other activities? Absolutely immature. Good luck to any dumb woman who thinks you're dating material. 🤦😂

[LazerBean]

I don't know about your specific situation, but I know my husband and I certainly appreciate that we have plenty of free time for each other.

[Shiningtempest]

@LazerBean Having plenty of free time to explore shared interest or find new hobbies are what matters to me. :)

[Astarlessnightsky]

Its against the capitalistic ideal of working your ass off and sacrificing everything for your company.

[NathanDavis]

you should just pair with @asad1one1

you two are just into the same thing... anime girls