How long/how many dates does it take to know if you should continue seeing a guy? (Page 2)

Skye07 · 2024-01-13T11:16:00Z

I met this guy from a dating app app a month or so ago. I just had my second date with him. He's a very straight forward guy and has made it very clear that he likes me a lot. Recently, through texts it seems like he has been trying to gauge my reciprocation of interest for him as well. So far I can tell that he is a nice guy and he is respectful. After our second date, we were texting a little and he a little more directly was wondering if I was interested in him. I kind of deflected the question a little because I honestly don't know! I'm not feeling much of anything but is that because I need more time or because there really isn't much chemistry? I struggle with extreme dating anxiety and so going on dates has always been hard on me. Heck, before this second date I had a major anxiety attack and i almost tried to cancel it.. once I was on the date I was fine and such. Despite my horrible anxieties I feel like I'm ready to date and I have an open mindset about dates and dating. I just can't tell if this guy is the one I want to date or not. I guess it doesn't help that I met another guy on that same app that I'd be interested in meeting as well. What are your thoughts? I accidentally wrote a lot, sorry.

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