I'm very much in love with a much younger man (40F, 25M), but I'm worried things can't work out long term with such a huge age gap What should we do? (Page 2)

[dinojames22]

Is the sex go? Are you concerned he is not really I to you... if the first answer is yes and Second no... youe fine

[Asker]

My concerns don't have anything to do with the relationship short term. We have amazing sex (quite frequently). I know he's super into me right now. My concern is much more about 10-30 years down the road.

[Jamie05rhs]

This is your fault for dating him in the first place. You put yourself in this situation.

[Anonymous]

25-year-old men are big babies. Good luck with that, unless you like playing mommy.

[Asker]

I agree that's often the case. That's a huge reason why I was so hesitant about the age gap at first. However, with him it really isn't. He's very mature (in fact, he's more mature than several guys my age I've dated). When I'm around him I don't feel an age gap. We're very compatible maturity wise.

The issue isn't compatibility now. It's more so if we'll continue to be compatible long term (for reasons explained above)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Go for it.

[Asker]

I'm just really concerned about how things will work out long term with as big of an age gap as we have.

[KrakenAttackin]

You are past having kids.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm thinking the same thing... she can't have many eggs left even if she's one of those genetic freaks.

[Avicenna]

@D_Bone_Steak: Nah, I've gotten several women pregnant at 40 or older, so she can probably still get pregnant. I would question the wisdom, however, of having kids with two different men- that will make her undateable and make her life hard when he leaves.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Avicenna Several... really? I wouldn't think it is very likely since 90% of the eggs are gone by age 30, but you know better from experience. Good point on the wisdom of it all... I really feel like the guy is probably just going to leave at some point.

[Avicenna]

@D_Bone_Steak: He will leave

[Asker]

I'm actually not. I had a doctor's visit, and he told me I'm still very capable of having kids. Also, I still have periods and haven't gone through menopause. I also put in a lot of effort to keep myself in pretty great physical shape

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... this is why he likes fucking you, but he would be a fool to marry you.

[Asker]

Why would he be a fool to marry me?

[Squatting_Slav]

What a legend

[jimmy2]

It's ok dear enjoy life