Why do people think its wrong for a guy to prefer dating a hot 18-19 old over someone his own age?

[Anonymous]

I have seen this sentiment several times, why do people have a problem with older guys dating 18 and 19 old chicks? They are legal adults, so whats so wrong if dude prefer them over women his own age?

[boggboss]

Only issue I can think is that men that tend to want women that age use a point if they more easier to mold which screens predatory I get being attracted to younger women thats fine but getting with one because they are not able to stand up for themself in a relationship is scummy

[aceleon]

scummy or not it is smart.

[boggboss]

Smart if your looking the date someone u don't see as equal sure

[aceleon]

again with the equality shit? don't take this as sexisim (not that i give a damn though) but there is no such thing as equality, no one is equal to one another especially man and womans and even that aside no one is my equal, there are few who are superior to me and rest is always below me also why would i even want an equal? no asking seriously what is there for me to want an equal?

[boggboss]

Why would u want a equal because being with someone u saw as beneath u would get boring unless the only thing u wanted from them was sex but even then if u didn't want someone who was as good at that also surly that would feel shit aswell and even if thats not the way u think good for u but thats not how most others think so I wouldn't be able to answer somthing specific to yourself but to how most others think

[aceleon]

why equal to me and fun? in what area i wonder? for always arguing about some shit? or them trying to to invade my rules and boundaries? nope, i want things my way i don't like compromising.
also going from your point i must never feel joy cuz i see everyone aside from me and God as beneath me mostly, i don't have to see someone as my equal in order to love and respect them.

[boggboss]

I dont see how u can see someone as beneath u but love and respect them as a partner but clearly we see things differently I would find it boring to have a partner that was pretty much beholden to my word pretty much a slave in that situation over someone I want to build a life with but fair enough if that's what floats ya boat

[aceleon]

don't you love your kids or pets?

[boggboss]

Well ofc but the love I feel for a pet is complety different then the love I feel for a human the love I feel for my child is completely differnt then the live I feel for my sexual partner

[aceleon]

don't go there i mean as in you love them, dearly at that but you don't see them as an equal.

[boggboss]

Don't go where I don't see my dog equal to my kid and the way I love my kid is not the same way I love my partner which I would see as equal to myself

[Zestyassmf1997]

It’s usually sore middle aged women and their lackeys.

[jennifer_bloom]

Bodies are usually better at 18 but personalities are usually better at 45 so you can choose whether you want body or personality.

[Anonymous]

I have always dated older guys and had great pleasure.

[slatyb]

Because the older guys that hit on teenagers tend to be quite immature. They hit on teens because adult women see how immature they are.

[Asker]

Or they prefer younger women because you ger chicks are likely to stay attractive longer.

[slatyb]

Just what I would want , picking up a woman at her parent's house.

[HelpfulWoman]

If you have to go for the more naive demographic, it easily tells you this person needs to be avoided.

[Asker]

He is doing it because 18 olds often look better, and they stay attractive longer

[aceleon]

i could understand if you were like 40 plus but if not it is okay (for 40 plus please go for 25 or so girls or else it looks so weird)

[In_Trance]

Depends what your age is