It depends on the person, everyone is different. I am attracted to all beautiful girls/ women in the world, black, brown and white. I am more attracted to females from other races who look different from Indians. I am extremely attracted to white girls and women. I am completely turned on by white blonde girls/ women. I don't like to date girls/ women who look like my mom, sisters, aunts, etc.
So my preference is white blonde girl for serious dating leading to wedding.
Only people with mental health issues develop obsessions. I’ve been with around 50 women in my life and none of them look even remotely similar.
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Anonymous
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3 mo
when I was a teenager my first crush was on my moms best friend. She was short, blonde and busty. I've been on a few dates with different woman, but everytime I see a short, busty blonde I still get an instant hard on.
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Anonymous
(30-35)
3 mo
Maybe. But she probably acts better than you, has a better attitude and submits better. No offense to you, but that’s how men work. I don’t think it’s flattery to be like yeah, he basically replaced me with someone similar to me. If that were true, he wanted you.. but you weren’t what he expected you failed to meet his expectations and so he tried again. That means you need to reevaluate yourself
Silly, we broke up because of distance, he was calling me and telling me he would always regret losing me and I would be his last thought on a deathbed, even when he was with that girl already…
Then why isn’t he moving to you. Pining at your door begging for forgiveness and making it work then? Men will tell you all sorts of foolishness.. but actions speak louder than words. He has another gf… he is just stringing you along because two is better than one. Bet his new girl doesn’t even know he is talking to you behind her back.
You believe that? lol he knows how to play heart strings. Again, if he really felt that way, he would have done everything to make it work, including not getting another girlfriend.. but he is playing both sides. Clever dude. Not fair to you or the other chick
Also, that girl had like 3 relationships before him and it’s no wonder she was more experienced, I only had 1 and maybe I made some mistakes. At least, he was my first and I was learning, he hasn’t been my 4th one.
I would argue you were never “in love” in the first place. Because again, if it was true love you would still be together and make it work. Fell out of love? Love is a conscious choice everyday to do it regardless of distance, feeling, circumstance, whatever. True love withstands it all. You fell out of the excitement that it was to be “together” in the first place. Nothing wrong with that but we got to call a spade a spade…
If he will never see you again, why does he keep contacting you? What did you do to make it work? How long were you seeing each other? Was it strictly online/phone?
For me, it was just recognizing a pattern with who I generally found appealing and who was also reciprocating my affections. Who was being kind to me. Who I was developing positive memories with.
My ex after we split up he went with someone totally opposite of me. I'm tiny she was huge i have blonde hair hers was black but after they split up his new girlfriend now looks alike like me.
It's more likely that he dated you BECAUSE you were "his type" to begin with, rather than you imprinting him. That would explain why his girlfriend's after you had similar features.
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People are attracted to people who look like them.
I found a girl that looked like my ex. She just had brown hair instead of blonde. I think everyone goes for a certain body type so it's not unusual
It depends on the person, everyone is different. I am attracted to all beautiful girls/ women in the world, black, brown and white. I am more attracted to females from other races who look different from Indians. I am extremely attracted to white girls and women. I am completely turned on by white blonde girls/ women. I don't like to date girls/ women who look like my mom, sisters, aunts, etc.
So my preference is white blonde girl for serious dating leading to wedding.
Only people with mental health issues develop obsessions. I’ve been with around 50 women in my life and none of them look even remotely similar.
when I was a teenager my first crush was on my moms best friend. She was short, blonde and busty. I've been on a few dates with different woman, but everytime I see a short, busty blonde I still get an instant hard on.
Maybe. But she probably acts better than you, has a better attitude and submits better. No offense to you, but that’s how men work. I don’t think it’s flattery to be like yeah, he basically replaced me with someone similar to me. If that were true, he wanted you.. but you weren’t what he expected you failed to meet his expectations and so he tried again. That means you need to reevaluate yourself
Silly, we broke up because of distance, he was calling me and telling me he would always regret losing me and I would be his last thought on a deathbed, even when he was with that girl already…
He even called me month ago.
And he was already with that girl when he told me, that I would always be the love of his life 😝
Then why isn’t he moving to you. Pining at your door begging for forgiveness and making it work then? Men will tell you all sorts of foolishness.. but actions speak louder than words. He has another gf… he is just stringing you along because two is better than one. Bet his new girl doesn’t even know he is talking to you behind her back.
You believe that? lol he knows how to play heart strings. Again, if he really felt that way, he would have done everything to make it work, including not getting another girlfriend.. but he is playing both sides. Clever dude. Not fair to you or the other chick
He did everything that he could. We broke up because we both fell out of love due to distance. We sat down and decided to break up together…
After many months of trying to make it work.
He knows he will never see me again. I was just wondering about the resemblance in appearance because I came across the pic on my feed.
Also, that girl had like 3 relationships before him and it’s no wonder she was more experienced, I only had 1 and maybe I made some mistakes. At least, he was my first and I was learning, he hasn’t been my 4th one.
I would argue you were never “in love” in the first place. Because again, if it was true love you would still be together and make it work. Fell out of love? Love is a conscious choice everyday to do it regardless of distance, feeling, circumstance, whatever. True love withstands it all. You fell out of the excitement that it was to be “together” in the first place. Nothing wrong with that but we got to call a spade a spade…
If he will never see you again, why does he keep contacting you? What did you do to make it work? How long were you seeing each other? Was it strictly online/phone?
I doubt it's you. It's probably a woman that impressed him when he was a child. relative, teacher, icon, etc..
it's possible though what you said...
For me, it was just recognizing a pattern with who I generally found appealing and who was also reciprocating my affections. Who was being kind to me. Who I was developing positive memories with.
Positive experiences with that certain type and less-than-positive experiences with another certain type.
I can't tell you cuz I've never had a type. I don't understand how people develop them so I'll be interested to read these comment
My ex after we split up he went with someone totally opposite of me. I'm tiny she was huge i have blonde hair hers was black but after they split up his new girlfriend now looks alike like me.
It's more likely that he dated you BECAUSE you were "his type" to begin with, rather than you imprinting him. That would explain why his girlfriend's after you had similar features.
You see something that makes you feel good. Combination of innate preference and conditioning via experiences.
I notice women pay more attention to their bf’s exes (or sometimes their exes new partners) then vice versa.
I do that I get horny as being. Jealous
I had been a gym rat most of my life and just gravitated to girls that like to workout.
Don't ask me. I got no type. I like what I like.
I always wondered that. My type is very different from my brothers'.
Maybe is still love you so he just find one like you
Or is his type of woman 🤔
Possibly We I think it depends on his age (phase) also certain traits could also influence physically is involved sorry couldn’t be more specific
When I started liking girls I just knew what type I liked and I still do.