No seriously where can us girls find a sweet introverted guy who has hobbies he enjoys and isn’t out there in bars and clubs. How can us women find y'all?
Honestly? As an introvert myself I don’t really know what to tell ya. Short of cashiers and coffee baristas I don’t really interact with people I don’t know. All my hobbies are solo or with friend groups. If I ever decided to try to go out and meet people maybe I’d start with church? I’m not sure- I’m pretty lucky to have the friends I do… cause I don’t even know how to make friends anymore lol, the only new people I’ve met in the last 5 years or so have all been new people to the groups.
What's the difference? None of you are ever looking for guys like me! I'm sweet, kind, caring, loving, loyal, a bit introvert, I don't hang out in bars unless my band is playing there that night, I don't drink, smoke or do drugs, I collect records, I don't beat women (that's why none of you want me!), and I know how to cook a lot of stuff.
Now you know why I'm constantly lonely! What girl wants a guy like me? NONE!!!
that was me, married now.
I was at work, biking and the gym, walking around my home. I started going to church and socializing there.
that's it...
I think you can create social engagements, singles events that are non threatening, sharing on topics and ideas to draw in and brake the ice. never use the word "dating" and such...
Sometimes we work out at the gym but these guys don’t do too much of anything sometimes. Pick a guy who might not be as confident at the grocery store heck anywhere and talk with him him ask him out and trust me those guys will easily be interested in you
Imagine you are such a guy, really feel and think about what it is like to actually be him. Deeply meditate on it. Where would you go, what would you do, with whom would you spend your time? It varies but the theme is the same. They are going to be quiet, unassuming, low key, maybe even slightly hidden.
seriously, you can't. like me for example, if i'm not working, i'm with friends, at home or i'm spending time with my hobby which is photography. the thing is you couldn't wait around somewhere to meet me during my photography sessions, cause i don't go to places regularly and i don't usually plan where to go a long time in advance.
You would have to pass the gauntlet of fire to get into my close-knit circle of people I trust. You could probably find me at the grocery store buying steak, at the gun store buying ammo (Merica), at a coffee shop reading, or at BJJ where I get all of the physical contact for the day over in one go hahaha. If you approach one-on-one at any of those places, I'd be happy to have an interesting conversation and see where it goes. I just don't like talking in big groups lol.
You don't. Most of them got married or get married in their 20s and remain married. The ones that are single don't want to be married and they only spend their time at work, or at home or doing their hobby.
At my house, or in a video game lobby on pc, or on occassion in an arcade, collectable shop, video game shop, electronics store, museum, zoo, aquarium, or library.
This is just my experience so take it with a grain of salt. It's mostly luck, for example I have a decently extroverted friend so I'll go out and do stuff with him. If I'm not hanging out with my friend I'm either working or at home indulging in my hobbies. If something related to my hobby can't be purchased on Amazon then I might go to a dedicated hobby shop or something. Hence why it's a matter of luck. Either be a friend of a friend of an introverted hobbyist or stumble upon one.
for me it would be under one of my classic cars, a car show, a local racetrack, dragstrip, motorcycle event, or at the firehouse, more so during one of our public events.
At work, at home or at our hobbies (depending what hobbies a person has that can be anywhere.)
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