I think sincerely you have your own interests and they don’t match very well with him, and you don’t have to fake interests for things he do. It’s legitimate to not have interest in something, so you can be propositive and suggest him to enjoy some of your interests!
I think there’s no need to have great things in common, if there’s an entente or there’s a common feeling when you’re together, that’s enough to build something for the both of you. Sure you can introduce him to your hobbies and passions and have to encourage him to let you involved in his interests so maybe you may find also something other in common between you two.
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It’s cringe to try and be an expert in something your not. If he wants to do something supporting him and being with himself enough usually. My ex hated I didn’t enjoy going on walks with her but I’m not much of a walks person. I did it but didn’t enjoy it and she disliked that. Men arnt quite the same. Pretending to be having a good time every now and then snot bad but overdoing it’s a mistake. That’s why both of you should have your own lives.
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From what I understand is there seems to be more differences in your interests and his interests and less in common.
In my opinion you should not pretend to take interest in things he is doing just for the sake of it, that is a very bad way of going about things. It is better you tell him yourself that you are actually not interested in things that he takes interest in.Don’t pretend to like something he likes rather find something u both enjoy to do. Talking about movies, books or something else u guys like will also increase his feelings for u and it’s also. The more u talk to each other the more easier it is to enjoy yourselves. It’s all about communication, who knows maybe you’ll find out the next day that there is something else you two have in common.😉
To be perfectly honest all guys want is for any girl to be themselves openly there's no need to feign an interest in sports or anything else for that matter.
You aren't compatible, break it off before you end up a single mom.
Relationships are best if you have different interests that you can teach/do together and you don’t have to be interested in all of his interests but should be interested in a few
You had to google what NBA is? lol
that was funnyNo, you should just be yourself, but let him know you're open to his hobbies.
join him in things he likes, invite him to join you in things you like
It’s good you were trying to spend time
Its fine, but it should go both ways.
Never fake interest
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