Can you see yourself dating someone much older?

[litty736]

I'm more on the older side and mentally I'm a teenager. I can't escape the fact that my mental and physical age don't match. Funny but true. I am only into younger dudes. Wish me well in the future.✌️

[Finchie40]

Just depends on the chemistry and connection her and I share together and how much we have in common , I don’t really hold age as a deciding factor on who i like and don’t like , I have dated older and younger girls’ mainly because we had a lot in common and were both attractive to each other , People that hold age as a deciding factor our only limiting themselves from possibly meeting someone that is amazing to them. Some of the younger girls I have dated were more mature than some of the girls that were my age or older , so that’s why I am pretty open to age and don’t allow it to really be a deciding factor , Now if the girl is completely younger than me , like I am old enough to be her Dad , I highly doubt her and I would have a lot in common , and I feel i am pretty wise enough not to go for a girl that is that much younger than I am, let alone I have had younger girls’ of legal age of consent hit on me and I had some that weren’t of legal age hit on me as well , I just consider myself wise enough not to pursue and go any further with them , I just laugh and tell them thanks , I am flattered you find me attractive but i am sorry I prefer dating girls ‘ older than that. One thing I learned in life is you shouldn't be rude to anyone that is showing interest in you , nobody knows what you are into and not into , so there is no reason to be rude to anyone , the only time you should be rude to someone is if they aren’t taking No for an answer and they keep continuing to pursue you after you told them No , that’s the only time I will be rude to a girl, but other than that i treat everyone with dignity and respect the same way i want to be treated in return Most younger girls ‘ just want sex that don’t want to be tied down into a relationship so if her and I are on the same page with things and I find her attractive , And she is of legal age of consent , then I possibly will play Twister with her in bed. I love girls that are honest with me , that straight out tell me the truth , a girl that is honest with me has a way better chance of getting what she wants out of me , compared to a girl that lies and keeps secrets. I no longer jump into relationships with girls’ mainly for this reason , cuz most of them lie and don’t really know what they want , that will string your heart along making it convenient for them , not giving a shit about your feelings , just giving a shit what they can benefit from you. So it mainly comes down to what you are looking for. Don’t let other people decide that for you , it’s your life and your choice as we all suffer consequences bro our actions. There is always going to be judgmental people trying to rub their 2 cents together, acting like they know everything, the truth is , they don’t know shit , those type of people need to worry about themselves and not worry about what you choose to do,, most people are hypocrites when it comes to other people’s decisions , as long as you aren’t hurting or forcing anyone to be with you , then you aren’t doing anything wrong , those people need to keep their mouths shut and Go fuck themselves , so if you like younger guys’ than go for younger guys’ we all have our own preferences of what we like and don’t like , it’s your life and your choice , no one else’s’ . I know a lot of happy couples that have huge age gaps and so many people judge and criticize their love for each other , they don’t care what other people think or say , they are happy with each other and that’s all that matters , it’s their life and their decision. Find someone that prioritizes you the same way you prioritize them , that’s where love grows , You and your partner Vs. this fuck up judgmental world we live in. When I was in a relationship with a 25 year old girl when I was 40 , so many people were making comments and disrespectful remarks to her and I’s relationship , I told all of them to Go fuck themselves cuz they had no clue why her and I fell for each other , most of them were jealous that I had a beautiful younger girl rocking my world in bed , that wished they were in my shoes , Her and I had so much in common and we loved spending time together , we complemented each other in ways nobody else would understand. Her and I chose each other for a reason , we didn’t force each other we just chose each other , that’s all that matters , Fuck what other people think or say , it’s not their life and not their decsion. Your happiness is all that matters when it comes down to meeting someone that wants to bring happiness into your life , stay away from people that try to bring misery into your life. Life is too short to worry about what others think or say about you , it’s ok to give advice to each other but it’s not ok to try to make someone else’s decisions in life. You should only intervene when you see someone crying for help , if they aren’t crying for help , leave them the fuck alone. Best advice I can give

[Anonymous]

A lot of men will date older women. The real question is will they stay w you after they’ve had sex w you?

[FreyaRed]

Nope. Even if I walk with my father in city or supermarket people look at us like on a gold digger and rich old guy couple. I wouldn't feel comfortable over longer time span in such relationship.

[Pinay_ako]

I’ve dated both sides. Older and younger. Can’t decide who’s better. They were all good.

[Apple1996]

Nah younger guys treat their women much better and aren't so entitled so I'll stick with them

[bowenw]

A lot of younger guys are into older women so you’re good.

[katiesmuff]

Not really! I think it gets to a point where your thought differences would be so far apart that any serious dating with huge age differences would crash badly.

[DarkWinterNights]

When I was younger I could, probably not now though. Most women older than me seem to have a chip on their shoulder and are difficult to connect with. Part of that could be me these days, but I don’t have the same issues talking with younger women.

[molonski2]

You will do fine , I've only ever gone out with women much younger , except for when I was very young myself , things match well.

[rosemilk]

nope. not into that. i need to be able to relate to them, as in, same generation, close to the same birth year.

[Night_Descends]

I have been close to a divorced 34 year old since few months. She's beautiful, kind, sweet, caring and looks/behaves like a girl who's in her early 20s. Amazing lady, ngl :D

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Not much older no. Older but around my age still.

[rachel776]

i have always seen myself dating someone much older and i am doing now

[Drumlin2001]

MyOH is 4 years older than me. If I were single I would date older again, maybe up to 50. Depends in individual. Would probably date down to 30.

[LiamJHayden]

I almost always date older. Not sure what "much older" means but I had a relationship with a lady 17 years my senior and have gone on dates with women even older.

[Anonymous]

No because that would mean dating 50+. And let's be honest after 50 a woman has no physical attractiveness left. So it's very unlikely you'll meet a woman past that age that is single that is worthwhile to date.

[Xia1994]

I do but not significantly older so like 8 years older max.

[exitseven]

no. Now that I am almost 53 if she was a lot older she would be on Medicare.

[Anonymous]

I'm 35 I'd go max for 45 if we both have feelings for each other

[Nikki1989]

I always dated older. I can't tolerate younger men.

[Anonymous]

Id prefer a guy who is at least 45 or older at this point. So yes, I want older.

[Squatting_Slav]

Yes and have done. Older women are beautiful

[Bobby88t]

Yes i dated once with my teacher.
I was 21 and she is 40 but she was so sexy

[ab2shifty]

Pretty unlikely if I do that, but who knows 🤣