GIRLS: when do you know if you like him?

[Anonymous]

i’ve went out on 3 dates with this guy i met through a networking event and he’s been the sweetest, our conversations flow and we’ve realized we’re basically the same person. i’ve been through some not so great experiences in love so i’m very very cautious and slow to truly opening up to someone and especially falling in love with someone. It does feel strange having someone tell me they like me too, as I've never experienced that before.

i still can’t tell if i truly like him yet, but i find myself very comfortable around him and wanting to spend the few hrs we have together, but i do think i need to go on a few more dates with him to know. is this normal, or is 3 dates usually the point where you know if you like them or not?

[Changiis07]

That is normal. Don't ever feel rushed and don't ever feel like you have to hurry and go on 3 dates and like him. It takes time to built something meaningful. My current boyfriend right now we went on a lot of dates until I started to like him, it's the things he started doing that got me to like him more and more. I started talking with him last year around June/July. It wasn't until way later my feelings started growing. It happens to everyone differently so go at your pace and never feel forced. He should respect if you need time. Always say what you feel and set boundaries. If something bothers you take time to communicate instead of jumping to conclusions or assuming. So enjoy your time with him let him know how you feel there's nothing wrong with that and listen to what he says as well. It's okay to take it slow, the best relationships are when you don't rush into having sex too soon and other things but everyone is different

[Asker]

this is really nice to hear, thank you

[strateguy632]

gals decide at first sight for some, or in 9 seconds.

[laly520]

take ur time