Ladies, does a man’s height matter? Guys, does a woman’s weight matter? Why/why not?

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Lottydotty · Accepted Answer

Yes and yes I believe they always matter. Not looks as much as functionality. Sex is vital to all relationships. But foods and everything we typically consume has been infused with many many variety of different ways to ruin all of your naturals. Hormones and ability to emote and love are all cognitive happening in the brain. But it needs the juices to flow. Health is extremely important for being able to love the fullest. Height can be determined by many things including lack of sleep, which in turn can make others not feel short men are equipped mentally of physically to love as much as they need. See big strong teddy bear guy types and every fricken person in the room wants them. See fit clean and down to earth motherly, caring women and every man in the room wants her. For good reasoning, we naturally desire the best, most capable and caring mentally and physically. We are meant to have balance with our chubness. Healthy is a bit chubby. Also being muscled up shows dedication amongst other positives of increased brains. To be smart, gymed up, as well as patient and kind is and should be the goals of all for a peak performance in life. However we aren't all perfect so it's good to find others can help with our problems. Tbh I think too many people give in to just sexing up straddling the playing field rather than focusing on what really benefits them. To see a world, government and society who actually gave a shit about each other. Money and suits. I pray to see a day where we all ark over to the moon or wherever amd see all the billionaires in their private space ships be shut down mid flight because some fairly good mastermind knows they hold no value and only continue the bullshit money system that kill the planet to begin with.

Oh yeah, this was just about height and weight my bad!

handsomelad70 · Accepted Answer

OF COURSE a woman's weight matters. I've never been attracted to fat broads.

catlaugh · Accepted Answer

I feel that height isn't that big of a deal for me. I am 5'3 and have no signs of growing anymore; so almost every guy is taller than me. My opinion may be biased because of my height, but as long as the guy is just a bit taller than me like 2 inches taller than me is fine. Although girls say they want someone over 6ft, I feel like that a bit too tall. So if you are interested in a girl who is short and are worried she may want to you to be taller I am sure it is fine, most short girls don't want a super tall man. It looks weird in pictures.

Beckybooboo · Accepted Answer

I dated a guy that was about three inches shorter than me, it didn’t bother me but it bothered him. One time we were going to meet at a house party and when he walked in, I walked over to give him a hug and he started yelling at me. “Don’t you ever hug me like that in front of people! You make feel like a child”! We didn’t last long after, because he would always make comments similar to that. Now, I prefer men taller. They don’t have to be giant but taller.

Avicenna · Answer

Weight does matter if she's unhealthy- mostly being obese, but also anorexic. Besides the health problems associated with obesity, an obese women isn't going to want to exercise with me or do a lot of outdoor activities, and those are important to me.

AviatorTom · Answer

A woman's weight only matters if she is grossly overweight, which is a sign that she doesn't take care of herself.

OfDeath · Answer

It isn’t really a fair comparison. A fat slob can go on a diet and lose weight. A short man can’t do anything about his height.

They both matter though. Taller people are generally more attractive than short people. So it is understandable that women want a tall partner. A tall guy is very useful in life. He can reach high places, naturally gets more respect and will be a better physical protector. A short man just can’t really match that at all. Just the way it is.

But there is no excuse for a fat woman. So the comparison isn’t fair.

Mikeysoda · Answer

A woman's weight does and does not matter. My issue is more on the health side of things not the appearance. In lieu of health complications, weight is a manageable thing. People have control of it. Weight is also correlated to health. So my underlining concern would be are they a healthy individual? Do they care about their health? Which correlates to how much an individual values themselves and their self worth. An individual now understanding their value or worth is a world of trouble. I think this same concept applies to men and their fitness or lack thereof as well.

Regarding a mans height, he has zero control of how tall or short he will grow in life. So a person's weight and a person's height is really not a great comparison for conversation.

Haraklus · Answer

A woman's weight probably does more to determine her attractiveness than any other single factor. Too much weight can make a woman who would have been beautiful ugly. Meanwhile, a very skinny woman with a fairly unattractive face is still... kinda hot.

There are obviously limits to just how light/skinny you can go before it starts to be a problem, but it's definitely true that the lower limit is significantly below where probably 95%+ of women are.

Lynx122 · Answer

I think both genders should take care of themselves and be healthy I don't see how that's controversial. I'm 6'3'' so I've never had this height issue bbut in the end everyone can make their own decisions. I just think if you're too close minded it's not a great way to find someone you truly connect with mentally.

Xia1994 · Answer

Well I’m generally attracted to guys who are taller than I am, I’m like 5’3 so if he’s over 5’3 that’s attractive to me.

Sameone · Answer

Nup never matter for me.

My ex girlfriend was 180 cm and aim 170 cm
And i never find any problem or something only when she wears heels is just like i have to jump to kissing her.

And i find taller women then me attractive I don't know why 😅

John_And_Elijah · Answer

Any woman who expects a man to be 6'0 tall suffers from what I like to call "dumb bitch syndrome". Unless she's around that height herself, she has no business getting picky over dumb shit like that. If you're a female around 5'5, you can settle for someone an inch or 2 taller. And yes, weight does matter to me. I don't want no fat bitches.

Drew-1990 · Answer

As long as she is not taller than me I don't care. I'm traditional so I would not enjoy being shorter than a girl. I be happy with my height to any height shorter. Lucky for me I'm 6' so not many girls are taller.

lilBigPotato · Answer

I like him to be taller than me. But in the end it's not the deciding factor

JacobJordan · Answer

Women are short af anyways you all look about the same to me. I am 6'2 ish and tower over most women.

Decoded93 · Answer

I’m 6’2 but when women say shit like they only date guys who are 6 feet plus I lose interest, there is more to a man than his height, it’s like when guys say stuff like they’d only want to date blondes etc.

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Answer

It helps to me if she's at a healthy weight or more specifically, body fat percentage. I want her to live a long and healthy life. If she's overweight or underweight but working on correcting it, that helps as long as she's working on it.

Agent_Elflord · Answer

To a certain extent like if it affects her mobility and stuff. I like thin women, I like chubby women.🤷 I am an outdoorsy person and hope to get back into ranching in the future so I would like to be with someone that can keep up with me.

thegreenyogi · Answer

To me it does because I am a tall woman and I prefer a man to be as tall if not taller than me.

AaronKrieger · Answer

As long as she is not very obese or underweight, then I could careless about her weight. I just want her comfortable in her body.

Apple1996 · Answer

Nope I'm not shallow so I don't care about height. I also would never be with a shallow man that cared about my weight

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have always preferred men around my height. I did however make an exception for my husband, who is 5" taller than me.

robhazelnut · Answer

The type of bodyfat in a woman is what changes health, and attractiveness to this one. Gluteofemoral increases it, while visceral decreases it.

NewWaves · Answer

Most recent guy I was interested in is shorter than me and it didn't bother me one bit. Why? It just didn't.

CindyRuns · Answer

I have always preferred guys who were taller than me. I'm 5"9 and my husband is 6'4

LostandFound__x · Answer

I prefer a guy that’s at least 6 foot because I’m quite tall myself

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I wouldn't say I care but I'm attracted to what I'm attracted to. I prefer short women I won't date a woman my height only because I'm super tall. I'm 6'5 if a woman is my height or taller she better be in the WNBA

silyt_ghoest · Answer

yes. i have a vendetta against tall people, they ruin the gene pool.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Nope. I’m a face person, I don’t really notice height.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

appearance doesn't matter... I won't joke, laugh or discuss with an appearance ffs...

OtterMan68 · Answer

To be honest, I'd have no problem dating woman well over 6'0, but I would not be attracted to someone under 4'8, which is how tall Simone Biles is.

Staximus · Answer

I might be kind of fat and out of shape, but I can still walk a mile uphill on a trail at 7000 feet elevation. If she can't do that because she's too fat, then that's too fat.

JosyJosy · Answer

I'm not attracted to slendermen or dwarves. But if you're none of those, there is no problem.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Yes! I am attracted to 5'11 or taller men because I'm attracted to a bigger size. I don't want to look taller than him when I wear heels.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

A girl's weight does matter to me. So in return I accept it when for a girl height matters :)

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Not to me tho but I do like small women more if I were to choose, they are adorable lol

JHAYES317 · Answer

I don’t care about height…weight does matter a bit…I don’t think I could seriously date a woman who significantly outweighed me…

butterly248 · Answer

Ofc not. There is more to a person than how they look!

ballweevil · Answer

kinda does and kinda dont, i would like to have girl smaller than me, but it isn't dealbreaker if she is taller

9in_Serpent · Answer

Not really for me but i do prefer if she is shorter than me and usually prefer to be under 5.5’

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

Yeah, well, it shouldn't but, lets face it, most guys and girls are shallow af

jahaims · Answer

No everyone is okay dating short fat people obviously

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

No height doesn't matter. Guys can be jerks in all sizes and guys can be sweet in all sizes.

dolemite58 · Answer

Of course it does, I don’t want a girl whose belly sticks out more than her boobs 😋

Jerre · Answer

Weight doesn’t matter unless she is super fat

4ngelic · Answer

both matter to most people

Booklover_90 · Answer

A man’s height has never been on my list.

sheikalana · Answer

It used to matter to me when I was single.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes it does to an extent

Phoenix98 · Answer

Yes it matters.

The_Sexpert · Answer

I'm cool with anything not too fat not too thin

Satoridream · Answer

I prefer guys who are taller than me

Fuentes · Answer

Lol if she obese he'll nah

renodnol32 · Answer

To me it does. I like a tall woman.

msc545 · Answer

Overweight women are unattractive.

BLP11520 · Answer

Weight doesn’t matter

underling · Answer

Of course both those things matter

SomeNobody · Answer

It's not a deal breaker, personally.

mandyfire98 · Answer

No not really.

soe11 · Answer

Heart matter

Nifrayu · Answer

Yes. I don't like short women.

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