Would a guy ask a girl out but then cancel it, secretly because as the day approaches, he starts worrying that she likes her male best friend more, and that he's always going to have to worry about him being in the picture?
Where do you girls think up these weird situations?
If a guy cancels a date, it's either because he's decided he doesn't want to date you, or he forgot that he already has an important thing planned then, then going to the basketball game with his buddies. The latter excuse is most common. 😏
Why would a girl have a male best friend? Unless heās gay he just wants to get in her pants.
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I'm very sure some guys are like that but, if she was my girl, she could have as many male friends as she likes, as long as she stays loyal to me.
I tend to have a number of female friends and I'm not about to give any of them up jut because my old lady is too insecure about me having them. So, I'm NOT about to do the same to her.
I can't STAND these uptight broads that can't even say, "Hi" to you just because they've got someone at home that shoves his dick into them on a regular basis! It also shows me that they have very little will power if they can't even say, "Hi" to another guy without wanting to fall madly into bed with him!!
Yes, because he likely isn't sure about the TRUE relationship between his intended new girlfriend and her boy "best friend." They should discuss the matter and the guy who's leery about the first date should decide if the potential pairing should proceed.
u I've seen versions of that happening yes... me, being the male friend in the equation
good riddance...
Maybe yeah, and he would have a legitimate reason to feel uncomfortable
I would have never been at that point to begin with.
No, not insecurity. But I would cancel a first date with a woman if I got toxic vibes about her friends.
Depends on the guy. Possible, but how would you know what his reasons are unless he tells you?
He might but that shows he doesn't have much confidence in himself if he does that
I assume so I've never had that happen to me.
If they are friends with benefits:s or he has gotten the wrong idea that they are friends with benefits:s.
Sounds classically insecure if that's the real reason. Ask him if you want to pursue it
I guess that depends on the person. It wouldnāt bother me since my ex-wife and I are still good friends so I understand itā¦.
I think if he cancels he has a better offer or he isnāt into you.
*Shrugs* I wouldn't think so, but I don't understand this kind of insecurity.
I wouldn't. It would just be the first and last date. It would be my fault for not vetting her better.
Possible but also finding out your mom has cancer could be the cause as well.
No idea why he canceled it.
Some guys might; anything is possible.
I wouldn't cancel a first date because of that
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