I wasn’t myself on our last date and he doesn’t want to see me again?

[Anonymous]

I took a medicationw that makes me act like a different person so the shit I said or acted wasn’t me. Do you think he’ll give me another shot if I tell him that

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Like oil & water happy pills & dating don’t really work out either & not I’m wondering what the hell did you take? Nose candy, booger sugar, devils lettuce?

[Asker]

A stimulant

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Tripping on acid?

[Asker]

No adhd med

[Static_In_The_Attic]

On your date how did the medication make you act?

[Asker]

Super anxious and emotional. I blurted out shit like I saw my ex and was less intimate

[Asker]

I saw my ex walking haha

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life I always say if you never try you will never know & as for me I rather try & fail rather than not try at all.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life the only way to move is forward & on your date I think you should try to leave the past in the past, live in the present & look forward to the future.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

On a date just be yourself & although you were super anxious leave the emotional shit at home. As for your ex he’s your ex & on a date if you just talk about your ex that would make me throw up.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If you like this guy be open & honest with him & maybe he will give you a second chance.

[Asker]

He said he thought about us and he is looking for something different. Is there still hope if I tell him I wasn’t myself?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

He’s looking for something different so what exactly is he looking for?

[Asker]

That’s what I asked but he didn’t reply. This was our second date. We hit it off our first date

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You hit it off on your first date. You took your pills on the second so maybe third times the charm.

[Asker]

How do I go about the message?

[Asker]

Do I mention that I was going to surprise him with lingerie on our next date?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Text him the following message. If Covid doesn’t take you out can I?

[Asker]

He doesn’t want to see me again though so it won’t make a difference if I ask him out.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Did you two fuck each other yet?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You were going to surprise him with lingerie on your next date? Good for you.

[Asker]

No that’s why I want to mention I was going to surprise him with lingerie when i come over the next date. Maybe that’ll entice him because he couldn’t keep his hands of me almost the entire time on both dates

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Somethings wrong with this picture. On both dates he couldn’t keep his hand off of you & now he won’t talk to you, why won’t he talk to you?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Don’t bring up the lingerie thing, if he won’t talk to you it’s his loss.

[Asker]

Should I say this “hi I want to open up about what was going on with me on our last date. I was on a medication that made me like a different person. I wasn’t myself because of it. I was truly myself and not on anything on our first date. Fun fact I was going to surprise you by wearing red lingerie on Friday 😉

[Asker]

We did an escape room as our final activity and after that he seemed off. I mentioned going to a concert that he didn’t want to go to but said he would for me. We made out right before I left

[Static_In_The_Attic]

For starters go with black lingerie it’s hot & save the red for another day. As for your message maybe you shouldn’t message him at all & give it a little time & see if he messages you. As for the guy do you want a relationship or do you just want him to pound your puss?

[Asker]

Well I want him and a relationship if it gets to that point

[Asker]

He was clear that he wanted to end things with us and wished me luck

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for life it moves on & if he was clear that he wanted to end things honor his request & move forward. I wish you the best of luck as well.

[Asker]

Should I still tell him that I wasn’t myself though because I think it’s unfair that he ended it because he saw me when I was on a med

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You shouldn’t have to explain yourself & to be honest it’s too late for that & he did make it clear that he did want to end things. It’s time for you to move on.

[Asker]

How is it too late? You said it’s better to try then not to try and regret

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You did try & you tried on the first & second date. Hopefully you are not blowing his phone up like a stalker.

[Asker]

He ended things by message after our second dated ended. He was super interested during those two dates, calling me special and beautiful most of the time. I only asked him why and he hasn’t replied. I didn’t blow up his phone.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

The heart wants what the heart wants & sometimes the heart can’t always have what it truly desires. If he ended things after your second date it’s his loss but it was also his choice as well.

[Asker]

He did try to get me in intimate situations like going over to his place so fast and insisting on it. He wanted to book a room near me on our second date. Always touching me. He wanted me to get naked and have oral in the hotel room but I said no. He would tell me he sees me as his future girlfriend so it doesn’t matter if we sleep together quickly or later on. He would always touch and kiss me but not make that much conversation. He made me feel special by telling me he wants to treat me right and how he wants me to be his. Was he in it just for intimacy?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

He’s a player & he probably just wants your panties to hit the floor. You can do better.

[Asker]

He probably thought it took too much effort to bed me. He asked me on the first date when approximately would I have sex and I said date 3 he thought that because I didn’t take my clothes off and have oral I wasn’t going to give it to him anytime soon?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

On the first date if he’s asking about sex that’s a red flag right there. On your second date he booked a hotel & panties didn’t drop that night that probably pissed him off. Obviously your not a slut & truthfully he probably just wanted sex & he’s a player. If I were you I would give up on him. How far does this joker live from you anyway?

[Asker]

One hour. I told him lll come over on the next date but wanted to go to a concert before i went over so he might’ve thought that was too much effort to get laid

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Anything was possible & who know what he was thinking & at this point who cares, it’s time to move on.

[Arguydo]

First impressions count. But be honest and if he cares about you / likes you a bit, he will give you a second change!

[exitseven]

Do you really need to be medicated before going on a date? Ask yourself that fist before you ask for forgiveness.

[MannMitAntworten]

Only one way to find out. Talk to him.

[Asker]

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