Guys: you get that cute girl's number. How long do you wait before calling/texting her? (Page 2)
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If a guy wait's more than a day to text me, he gets a lower rating from me. Playing games is not mature
Oh give me a break, women play mind games with men all the time.
I don't though
the earliest I've had a guy text me after getting my number was like 20 min lol
20 to 45 min
idk why some people think they need to play games and wait for 48 hours
miss I can answer your question why is like this if you call or text right away she thinks oh he is too nice,he is too sweet, he is so boring, not challenge enough you know you love challenge so a true nice guy like me learned you hate nice guys,geeks,nerds and good guys like me so.
He play the games back at you to get you miss him
and you do play hard to get games and other f*** up games don't say you don't unless you can proof it so he is also creating mystery since you women love challenge and guys who is mystery either you want him call/text you 24/7 and that's to nice and you wanted him with a backbone .
Or do you want him only focus on you which is with no backbone and do everything you wanted never argue with you agree with everything you say do everything you wanted to do choice is yours to make
DragonLord, well you're wrong. It felt great hearing from him so soon :) I appreciate it when guys don't play games like that and they're just straight up. The whole "trying to create a mystery" sh*t is fckn annoying.
I knew the guy had a backbone. Waiting to contact someone doesn't necessarily mean you have a backbone
so let me get this straight you rather have him call you 24/7 never argue with you agree with everything you say compliment you every time do whatever you say agree with you on everything even if he hates it is that what you want and yes you do you get friendzoned for being too nice
if that was out of line I apologize and yes you do get friend zoned for being too nice and being sweet she runs off with some jerk some evil bastard then cry about it and yet they always go back for more and honestly I am sick of it and I refuse to be the second choice.
Either she picks me first or I'm gone and she'll stay in the friend zoned permanently since she friend zoned me and I move on rather she likes it or not
DragonLord, don't put words in my mouth.
I didn't say "I'd rather have him call me 24/7, never argue with me and agree with everything and compliment me all the time (those last three are irrelevant)."
Sounds like you're taking a personal situation out on me lol go tell all of that to the girl who made you think that way.
if you read my other comment I said I apologize if that was out of line and yes you do get friend zoned for being too nice and being sweet she runs off with some jerk some evil bastard then cry about it and yet they always go back for more and honestly I am sick of it and I refuse to be the second choice.
Either she picks me first or I'm gone and she'll stay in the friend zoned permanently since she friend zoned me and I move on rather she likes it or not
you're way off topic when it comes to my answer what's being asked in this Q.
She's simply asking about how long a guy called you after he got your number, not getting friend zoned for being too nice and sweet. Seriously, stop acting like I'm your therapist.
I am and I am speaking the truth and my answer I said my best guess is wait till one week or more later or never call/text unless I feel like it if you want to know why read my answer very carefully then respond and have proof if you think I'm wrong
Some girl putting you in the friend zone because you were too nice and had no back bone has nothing to do with when a guy calls you after he gets your number. Stop trying to make this post all about you and your experience.
if he is smart he will text me a few hours later or the next day, if you wait any longer than that, honestly I have probably already lost interest, blahhhh!
If they're smart and really interested, the next day.
usually 24-72 hours later, depends on if I'm in the mood to chat, or if I'm busy.
The same day. First checking I got the number right, then actual talking later that day unless it was already very late. I see no point in waiting. I’d be excited, and eager to see how well things go.
Me get a number from a cute girl lmfao, it will never happen. Maybe if I were a douchebag, other then that nope won't get one.
Thats right keep giving me thumbs down, because you know I'm right.
lol man the f*** up and don't be such a nice guy. I'm not mr nice guy all the time nor am I a d*** all the time be 50/50
and I can get almsot any girl that I want
Nah tried it doesn't work I know its the way I look. I've given up.
Stop trying so hard, you're doing it wrong.
That's just it I don't that hard and still fail, that's why I believe its my looks.
Yeah keep giving me thumbs down, because you all know its the truth.
Depends on the girl... I can call text her within an hour after meeting her, on the next day, next few days or next week
Probably the next day, even if it's just to check or say hi.
When I was younger, I always thought three days was good, but I’m thinking that’s a little bit too long perhaps two days
I won't date a guy who texts, so he better call.
depends on how long it would take for me to get home at night and be free
probably next day, don't want to be clingy or needy, desperate
id probably just send a text right away just so she gets my number too
I text her right away so she can save my number as well.
The next day for sure.
I never do she's not worth it. I just asked to see if I could get it which I did mission complete.
woow..
I was nosey and wanted to see the results haha
Usually he texts the same day.
The next day