Why can't he just be happy for me and wish me all the best?

[liburnia]

I lost my current position at work and now looking for a new job. I don't want to stay where I'm not appreciated. I worked as a librarian in a public library and now applied for a scientific library. When I told my friend that, he told me that those people are going to change me. I asked why does he think that, and he only answered that I'll see. It didn't sound like encouragement that I can become a better person being around highly educated people. It sounded more as if he is accusing me of becoming a bad person. At the same time, he knows how bad I felt at my old job, and how mistreated I was. It sounded to me as if he is afraid he won't be good enough for me anymore.

[Guardian45]

Okay. I don't know anything about your 'friend', but he could be jealous? Is he a work colleague?

Anyways, I hope you get the job, it sounds like it would be superfun to work in a scientific library!

[liburnia]

He's not a work colleague. Thanks for your support I do to think it would be fun.

[Guardian45]

Could he be jealous, or am I imagining it?

[liburnia]

I think it was jealousy. Is he afraid that I'll find other friends and he won't be interesting to me anymore?

[Guardian45]

Is he or does he want to be more than friends?

[liburnia]

I'd say he is more than a friend, just not sexually. We never had sex.

[Guardian45]

It sounds like he may want to be more to you than he is now.

[liburnia]

I thought he is afraid that he would be replaced, that I would find someone more interesting there. But I thought of it from the friendship side only. Not that he doesn't want me to replace him as more than that.

[Guardian45]

I think its time for a chat. Layout how you view your friendship. And ask him what he wants from you.

[liburnia]

You're probably right.

[Guardian45]

Good luck! Let us know what happens!

[LifeLover91]

Why does he think so? Seems like he is not good educated i guess?

[LifeLover91]

@liburnia good morning, where are you :)

[LifeLover91]

@liburnia you shouldD m me, shouldn't you?

[liburnia]

Why should I DM you🫣😏

[LifeLover91]

Why shouldn't you @liburnia? :)

[LifeLover91]

Here is Lover, you dont appreciate this lonely Lover man? Lol @liburnia

[liburnia]

You need to send me a DM

[LifeLover91]

You need to:) im xper1 , i can't

[LifeLover91]

Dont be shy @liburnia lol

[liburnia]

Your profile is private 🫣

[LifeLover91]

Now try

[LifeLover91]

Do whatever i command you! @liburnia :)

[LifeLover91]

Good morning @liburnia where are you

[LifeLover91]

Dont you see my messages? Dont you deserve punishment then? @liburnia

[LifeLover91]

@liburnia :p :p look at messages

[LifeLover91]

@liburnia you see my messages huh :p

[es20490446e]

his problem.