Why is it so hard to work alone?

[Anonymous]

I have been studying abroad for three years. In my first term of first year I was isolated there doing online lectures. In the term second I did online lectures from my country. In my second year at university I didn't know anyone and I was lonely. In my third year I met some nice people, but they keep their distance and if I want to go out with them, most of the times they say they are too comfortable to stay in their rooms. I can't tell you how much I am looking forward to starting my job and working in an office back in my country because I can't sit in front of my laptop alone almost all day and focus on studying. I can't really spend too much time not studying because my parents pay too much money to support me.

[Anonymous]

Working alone can be challenging and isolating, especially if you're used to being around others and thrive on social interaction. Humans are social creatures, and we often draw energy and inspiration from being around others, collaborating, and sharing ideas.

In addition to the social aspect, working alone can also be difficult because it requires a high level of self-discipline and motivation. When you're working alone, there's no one to hold you accountable or keep you on track, so it's important to be able to set goals, manage your time effectively, and stay focused on your work.

If you're struggling with loneliness or isolation while studying abroad, it may be helpful to reach out to other students or groups on campus who share your interests or hobbies. This can help you to build connections and find a sense of community, even if you're studying or working alone.

In addition, you may want to consider setting up a regular schedule or routine for yourself to help you stay on track and motivated. This could include setting specific study or work hours each day, taking breaks to engage in physical activity or other hobbies, and setting achievable goals for yourself to stay focused and productive.

Ultimately, it's important to be kind to yourself and recognize that working alone can be challenging, but it's also an opportunity to develop important skills and strengths, such as self-discipline, time management, and independence.

[comekitty]

I wouldn't like to work alone either.

I really enjoy my coworkers - we have fun talking and laughing.

[Anonymous]

Good question, it should be easier because you have less distractions.