I work at a daycare for those of you who don't know. And we are understaffed. I work with the babies, which has 6 kids enrolled currently. And a teacher is only allowed to watch 4 babies at once. So we have two teachers for this room. We'll this morning the other teacher told me she's thinking of calling out tomorrow to spend time with her daughter who's home from college. But this is annoying because that's not to me a reason to not come in. Of that was then I'd everytime my boyfriend was on town use him as an excuse to not work. She has the weekend with her kid. But I had to tell her it's fine, because of I don't she'll be mad. Bit would I be an asshole to be honest and tell her it's not fair. That she needs to come in because that's shitty to me. Especially when she was just out for a week saying she was sick
that actually is a fair reason, do you not have PTO? and you should be taking PTO every time your boyfriend is in town (sounds long distance so you two don't have much time together) to spend time with him since you barely see him. why do you not take PTO? work isn't life... it's called work/life balance. how is this not fair? because you don't take time off? so you don't want others to take time off? because it'll be hard on you? that is life...
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i mean, it isn't fair and it's illegal to have not enough carers for the children.
its not being an asshole to point that out. if she wants time off with her kid, she needs to organise it IN ADVANCE.
Time off when there's a legal minimum staff ratio isn't something you can just take like that. It could result in you losing your job if an inspector makes a drop by visit. They'd close you down and it's likely you'd lose police clearance to work with children as well.
She's the asshole.
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Looks like I'm a little late here, but this happened constantly at my old job. Before we got new supervision they used to rotate us so no the same people didn't always have to work weekends. They stuck me on weekends for the whole season, while the new girl I was originally supposed to work with, got put on Mon - Wed, because she had no time to hangout with her boyfriend. Not my fucking problem. What did you put on your availability form? He can change HIS schedule. Figure it out! It seemed like everyone at that company had an excuse except ME. When I asked for weekends off they only gave me Sundays and made a huge fuss about it. And the stupid thing was, if you wanted to work 4 days you HAD to work weekends.
I don't know what happened to employers but they've gotten too soft. Back in the day you would have to lie if you wanted to get a day off for something like that. "Wanting to hangout with your boyfriend", is not an excuse to not come to work. It's also funny how the boyfriend never asks for time off at HIS job. If I were you, I wouldn't have shown up either or at least demanded overtime pay. I wonder what they would have done.
"to spend time with her daughter who's home from college."
Actually thats a good reason.
Its stupid to let your job interfere with your life. its supposed to provide income so you can live how you want. If it doesn't do that, its not the right job for the person.You should call off for tomorrow. Fuck her and that stupid boss. Let the boss come in to watch all 6 kids since he’s okay with her leaving you stranded so often? No you are not a bad person for prioritizing your own needs when someone is clearly taking advantage of your kindness and being selfish with all the time off she’s taking. Call in sick tomorrow and see how chill the boss is then about her taking even MORE time off.
You don't supervise your co-worker, so I wouldn't question her decision. She needs to get approval from a supervisor, right? And apparently she has done that. I would simply ask the supervisor who else will be working in your classroom tomorrow.
How often does her daughter come home from college?
if its a one time thing then I don’t see an issue with letting her go. But if its a regular thing then i can see an issues with that.
Okay, you suck it up and the next time your boyfriend is in town you should bang in sick.
Family is more important thank work
Sometime you do come across a bit rude
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