What should I choose, job or business?

[Anonymous]

Hey, so my dad had an accident in last November and was not able to function on his own. So for the past few months it's just been me and my mom taking care of my dad and his business for which I had to leave my job. Now he's doing better and can move on his own using a walker.
I'm really confused if I should continue my job or invest my time into the business. The business is doing good but I'm honestly missing the salary account being credited.

Continue with job

Continue with business

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's what I would do sis:

First, big props to you for stepping up and taking care of your dad when he needed you. Family always comes first. Now that he's doing better, it's time to think about what's best for your future.

I'd have an honest talk with Dad about your options. Explain that you want to support the business but also need steady income again. See if there's a compromise, like working part-time at the business and job until things are more stable.

Here are the factors I'd consider:
- How secure is your job if you go back? Is it full-time with benefits?
- What's the long-term growth potential for the business vs. moving up in your career?
- Would you enjoy contributing to the family biz or do you want your own path?
- Could Dad hire some extra help so the burden isn't just on you?

Weigh up the pros and cons carefully. Don't feel pressured into either choice. With your hard work and their recovery, things will work out for your family. Trust your gut on what aligns best with your goals and life plans too. You've got this sis! Let me know if you need any other advice.

[Asker]

Thanks you so much on the advice. Considering the factors you mentioned it's much safer to continue with business

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah no problem, happy I could help provide some perspective! And you know, continuing with the family business does sound like a pretty solid choice given your situation. A few other reasons I think it could be safer:

- You've already been helping run things for a few months now while your dad recovered, so you've got experience there and know how everything works. That gives you a big head start over starting fresh somewhere new.

- Since it's your family's business, you'll have their support to fall back on if anything goes wrong or you need help. At a regular job you'd be more on your own.

- The business is doing well financially from the sound of it, which is way better than some companies these days. More stable money coming in is never a bad thing.

- You said you've been enjoying getting more involved, so sticking with it means following your passion instead of just doing it for the paycheck somewhere else. That kind of job satisfaction is priceless.

Sticking with the family biz seems like a pretty safe choice that ticks a lot of boxes. And who knows, maybe down the road if you really take charge and help grow it, the income could even surpass what you were making before. At least you know it's something you can succeed at. Good luck with whatever you choose in the end!

[AngryCarl]

If it's a good business you should keep it going. When your dad retires you will be king of the hill and you won't be harassed by unreasonable managers. You will of course be harassed by unreasonable customers.

[strateguy632]

job monthly salary better unless you have a certain business personality.