My best friend called me a whore?

[Anonymous]

I'm in highschool, I'm a virgin, and I plan on staying one throughout highschool. Cuz I feel like at this age guys won't really like you and they'll just take advantage of you. But I have to say I'm guilty of flirting with a lot of guys.. One guy in particular that I've had a thing with for awhile and I'm waiting for him to ask my out. But today my best friend of 5 years called me a WHORE. If anything she's definitly the whore! She walks around with her huge saggy d cups popping out of her shirt every single day. Girls always tell her to pull up her shirt or pop them back in and she doesn't listen. Guys always tell me she looks like a slut all the time. And she's always talking about how she wants to have sex with a bunch of guys. I rarely show cleavage and tbh I've never even really had a real boyfriend I've only hooked up with one guy and by hooked up I mean made out with and they other ones I kissed were dares at a party. the reason she called me a whore was because this guy said something really perverted to me and after overreacting I started flirting with him. (The same guy is had a thing with for awhile) and she said that if a guy grabbed my ass I'd just giggle and not slap him. And she told me to grow a backbone. And no I would actually probably hit him. But was it fair of her to call me this? Especially since she doesn't exactly have a clean record herself?

[kangy]

Both of you are not best friends to each other. To me, a best/good friend would never give one an awful label like what she used on you and also not bad mouth them like what u did here.
it is good and smart of you to stay virgin throughout your highschool as you already know guys at your age now dont really care about u they only out for one thing.

[dazedandconfused223]

You both sound like immature idiots. Why are you "best friends"with a girl you insult and who insults you?
Grow up if you claim to be so mature and "want to wait for the right guy". Sounds like bullshit to me in reality there is no guy who wants to date you at the moment.

[kittykatg]

Neither of you should be calling each other whores! Friends are supposed to build each other up and support each other, not call names. Even if you weren't friends you should be saying such things about each other.

[cheeseysouffle]

You're sending a message that you're fair game... but you're both in the wrong and being immature about the whole situation.

[parkway]

Why do you ask the question?

Your girl knows how to rub your ego the wrong way. If she did not know how to hurt you, you would not be asking that question.

Your girl is jealous of you having virtue. Guys will just jump from girl to girl and when you are older the guys will be more serious.

[rthomas43]

"If anything she's definitly the whore! She walks around with her huge saggy d cups".

Y'all must be great friends. Even when you're upset with them, you shouldn't bad mouth your friends like that.

And no, nothing you did was even remotely whorey.

[Rcjh1987]

There is nothing wrong with Ds

[rthomas43]

@Rcjh1987

Ds are the worst size, by far! :p ;)

[Asker]

Read what I responded to the other guy.. And I'm just mad at her right now. But honestly she shouldn't be flaunting it attracts the wrong attention..

[rthomas43]

"She shouldn't".
You don't get decide what your friend should or shouldn't do.

[Asker]

It's disgusting and everyone calls her a slut idgaf what you think

[ilovchipmunk]

I started to miss my high school life so stable and these where you go I go , gooooh i hate working. i wish someday i can speak out something mindlessly.
Sooner or later you and your friend would grow up and having individual life not even a odd to cross over, then you will reminisce this funny stage, piss each other off just for jealousy.
whatever, enjoy your young life.

[Eaglesoars]

I think she's probably calling you a whore because you have a guy that probably likes you for who you beyond your looks and she doesn't. While calling you a whore doesn't make sense its just something she probably said out of anger

[anonymous0103]

classic jealousy. i agree man. she just wants what she can't have. a kind and loving relationship.

[ironeddie]

She called you a name. Who cares. Look at the big picture. You have a best friend.

I would love it if my best friend called me a name. But I know she can't. I was at her funeral yesterday.

Be thankful.

[rjroy3]

Often times, girls don't know what a best friend really is and from the sounds of it, you two aren't friends.

Was she wrong to say that? Yes.
But you blasting her online isn't that great either

[Asker]

I think it's better for me to take out my feelings on an anonymous account then accidentally slip up in person even if I'm hiding behind a computer screen. Lol

[rjroy3]

It's a lesser evil, I'd have to agree lol.

[RationalMale]

Don't worry about it. Girls are viscous and cruel. Learn to stand up for yourself, and don't take it too personally.

[Danielthan]

No i agre she is out of line. But don t call her a slut back even if she is. You wouldn t be helping

[Insaan]

Girls cannot become best friends.