Do not start something that you may Not be able to Finish With... In a relationship type.
Keeping it cozy Cousin close and also keeping it in the family, may Not suit others, especially the Elders.
I once was, at the age of 13-16, in a First Love Relationship with a Third cousin. My parents had nothing bad to say, his own mom either, but when it came to his dad, who was a bit mad, and the other side, who would Confide, it was nothing but A... Barn yard romance.
President Roosevelt had married a Second cousin Elinor but now a days, people talk when others from the Outside looking in, may just... Ignore.
My suggestion is just keep it light and semi sweet here, dear. She may use your shoulder to cry on and it could end up to be Where... You Both cry over spilled milk that ends up ruining something special Now that you have and Uphold.
Good luck. xx
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I'm sorry to the other commenters buuuuttt...
I find their responses really wrong... Im sorry... But in my opinion its ok to like someone that is related to you and i don't find it weird. If you truly like her then go for it. But don't try to force anything on her if she doesn't agree. Family relationships can be tricky and this may just be a little faze? Maybe you feel really bad for her about her boyfriend and you just wanted to comfort her and show her not all guys are bad?
But anyway its natural to like someone and want to cuddle them ^.^
If your feelings are real i vote, GO FOR IT! ^.^
Sorry for the long chuck of text >.<
P. S. Keep me updated on what happens, i wanna help you ^.^
-Tamsin
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No, don't start liking your cousin because that's weird and she's also family related. You should find some other girl to cuddle with, there's a lot of other girls out there that you can like besides your cousin or any other of your family members. If you want to cheer your cousin up then maybe y'all can watch a movie together (but no cuddling) or y'all can play videos games or take a walk outside or something. Don't worry, your cousin will one day or hopefully find another guy that won't cheat on her.
Can i ask how long its been aince your last relationship or dated many girls
As she's just come out of a relationship there's an emotional and vunerable side there, plus she's your cousin, she may be completely blown out the water if she knows you feel like this thus creating an uneasy atmosphere between you both, then questions from family, fall outs etc.
Id personally step away from your feelings but just be that shoulder for her knowing she has your support.
Sorry if not what you want to hearNo offense if this is offensive, since your cousin if recently out of a relationship she's probably looking for any type of affection that she can get. And liking your cousin in a relationshippy kind of way just isn't cool
Young men say cuddle when they mean something else. Is your real question is it ok if I fu*k my cousin?
''I started to like her as in a relationship type'' ummm.. no.. if you feel like that about her you should NOT cuddle with her.
Dude no... That's weird
Maybe keep those thoughts to yourselfThere are millions of the girls in the world. Pick one that isn't in your family.
It's kinda weird lol. She's family
thats just wrong
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