12 year booty call

[sunshinehues]

I've been seeing someone for 12 yrs, we both have children with other people and have had serious relationships with others. we always come back to each other. when I have said enough with just sex ~he told me he was ready but nothing came of it. he said he got freaked out~ then I was in a serious relationship and he called non stop I mean daily and even came over to the house!!!! I was pregnant at that time. now he's in a relationship and we see each other 2-4 times/wk... we met when we were 14 started sleeping together at 22.. we are now 34~~ any thoughts?? Am I going to be 80 and still doing this??

[lefthand]

I have a number of old friends I continue to sleep with, which is nice. These are important relationships which give an appreciable emotional stability to our lives. If you are lucky, you will continue to have some relationships like this. These are the people who tend to mean a great deal to us.

fwiw: I married my friend /f*** buddy after several years of on and off. Still happy.

[sunshinehues]

That's what I really wanted to hear. o she id the one you basically come back to??? and why??? I'm a Taurus and he's a Capricorn, if that mean anything to you... or not??

[lefthand]

She's my wife of 15 years and if she wasn't my wife, I would still want to f*** her and hang out with her. People get really strung out about defining love and romance. They miss the obvious. The people I love are the people who are still there when everything is said and done. Love is a statement of value and I can't think of a higher value than continuing to devote your time to someone.

As far as astrology, I don't care. Her merit is obvious to me. :)

[deadlovealiveagain]

I am thinking you two like the excitement of knowing you have people at home waiting on you. Its what fuels your fire. I wonder if you two become a couple would the sex be as enjoyable? I think not. I think you two get a rush out of cheating, and you can keep doing it until your 80, and most likely you will unless you get tired of it. Good luck

[Rafael151]

Except for the pregnant part, it sounds that way. If he was serious, it would have happened by now. He just has it too good as it is, so why commit? And if he thinks his other woman doesn't know something is up, he needs to guess again. Women can sense these things. It's just a matter of acceptance or denial.