Was it his girlfriend texting me?

[Anonymous]

OK so I was sorta friends with benefits with this guy for awhile when he came down to stay with me, he went back home and less than a month later got with a new girl, yeah I realized I had feelings but kept them to myself and tried to be friends. Yet even though he was with her he kept saying he was coming down again to visit even up until 2 days ago. I'd text him asking if he was coming down, he didn't answer but I spoke to him the next day and was still on about coming down even if it wasn't on the date I'd asked about. Then the next day I started getting texts from his girlfriend mobile saying it was from him and how he isn't coming down she's pregnant and he never wants to hear from me again but it was like he was replying to my original text and had completely forgotten about it. So I didn't text back but kept getting messages, 7 in total so when I finally replied I said I'll talk about this when I can talk to you properly, I got another text and then straight after one as if it was from his girlfriend herself. Were they from her all along?

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please no judgements, I just wanna know if it was her or him and why would he be so cruel when it was him adamant he was coming down

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ok so I spoke to him and he has no idea about any of it but his

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*gf was supposedly at work when it happened so I have no clue!

[missymoo]

It might have been her, or maybe it was him with his girlfriend watching over his shoulder making sure he ended things (she may have discovered what was going on). but the fact that you kept getting the messages even after you didn't write back makes me think that it might have been the girlfriend. Also, a guy probably wouldn't mention the details, such as his girlfriend being pregnant, so maybe it was the girlfriend hoping you'd feel bad? If you still have the messages compare the way they are worded and the spelling and grammar to old one off him, if it doesn't dound like him, it probably was the girlfriend.

[Asker]

I haven't got any messages left I deleted them all, but it was constant like whoever was goading me to say something and hurt me as much as possible saying there was nothing for him down here, she was taking him to paris after 'shes' born and the first text said stuff like I've got no credit that's why I'm using this mob but he knew I knew he didn't hav cred we'd spoken about it and it said I've had enough! but he was fine with me when we were chatting the 2 days before

[missymoo]

Ok it definately sounds like the girlfriend. Only a chick would carry on rubbing it in like that. Just forget about them and find another guy, the last thing you need is a psycho girlfriend on your back lol good luck :)

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