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Girls, would you let a close guy friend sit on your lap if there were no more chairs left, explain? (Page 2)
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Well guys are heavier most of the time. So that would make me physically uncomfortable. It happened before. He asked if he could sit on my lap. I agreed. And he was heavy af lol. So we decided to switch places. Its not weird or anything, its just uncomfortable.
the time when it happened where were you?
We were watching a perfomance. Smth similar to Late Night Show.
why did he ask?
Because there were no chairs left and its actually long perfomance.
when he asked what did you say?
Do you let your female friends sit on your lap as well and besides weight is it any different than a guy fired sitting on your lap?
When he asked I just said "yeah, sure, go ahead" and he suggested to change places later. Yes, I let my female friends to sit on my lap. They let me too. Well its a bit strange at the begining (when guy is sitting on your lap) and you receive strange looks from others. But actually I dont see the difference (besides weight but that can happen with girls too)
so yes you would allow guy friends to sit on your lap?
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
would you offer to only girls or guys too?
1. Yes
2. I wouldn't offer. Simply because I wouldn't think about it. I wouldn't wrap my hands if he is only friend. If I like him more than that - sure.
3. Yeah
4. I've never offered a guy to sit on my lap. But I've done that with girls.
how come you don't offer guys? when you offer girls what do you normally say?
if the guy friend asked to sit on your lap what would you say afterwards? Would you let him and why (even though its uncomfortable)?
At the performance how long was the guy friend sitting on your lap for? were you with other friends as well?
if a guy friend sat on your lap what would you do without asking you what would you do? Would you find it awkward or weird or no?
It just wouldn't come to my mind. For girls I just say "hey, you can sit on my lap if you want to"
I think I already answered to that. I wouldn't let him sit for a ling time if Im unconfortable, unless he can't stand for some kind of medical reason but I would probably give him my chair and stand then.
He was sitting on my lap maybe 20min. Yeah, there were more friends and some of them did the same.
If he would sit without asking, I would be surprised for sure. Maybe I would laugh and say "dude, what are doing?" And after that it all depends on hos answer
why did he sit on you for so long if you were uncomfortable? when you said there were more friends that did the same what do you mean?
No it's funny 🤣🤣🤣 I think it's funny and cute. He's just close enough to you to be that comfortable and you know, I don't think people get THAT close. There's nothing wrong with it. And it's not "gay"
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
How and why is it funny and cute to you?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
I mean if there were no seats. There's nothing wrong with that. It's not like he's asking to fuck, is he? 🤔 it's in a non sexual way. And it's funny and cute because one, he's your friend acting like a child... That's funny and cute to me lmao and if he just walked up and sat on you so what 💀💀💀 and if you were his girl he's probably make YOU get up and you sit on HIS lap
haha I meant if it was a girl friend sitting on your lap instead of a guy friend when I said girl-friend? Would there be a difference
also would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
also your answers are helping me a lot by the way I am doing a project for social interactions so I need as much of your opinions as possible :)
I mean it always comes off as gay but it's really not. And I would say "just sit on my lap" lmao and use this for example: if you were holding a baby on your lap, you would hold it, correct? Same thing with him. Just hold him. Not full blown wrap your arms around him like you two are together
lets say your guy friend sat on your lap without asking you/your permission what would you do then?
Would it be alright?
Yeah there's nothing wrong with that
if he asked to sit on your lap if there were no more chairs left what would you say/do then?
Are your guy friends allowed to sit on your lap in situations of need because you think its funny and cute? Or do you just like being friendly? Or both? explain
Would you like the fact that they were really close to you?
Girl... you're asking the same question. YES, IT'S OKAY FOR HIM TO SIT ON YOUR LAP FRIENDLY AND BC IT'S CUTE. YES, SIT ON THE LAP REGARDLESS. YOUR ANSWER IS YES, IT'S OKAY. Jesus 😧😧😧
If we're close friends then yeah, it's not a big deal as long as they're the ones sitting in my lap, because I'm not sitting in their lap, no chance. If not, maybe share the seat or if it has a desk attached to or near it, I'd sit on the desk and I'd let him sit on the chair. Either way it's not that big a deal.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
That sounds very specific... Would you like to share the situation fully? It's just so I can have a better idea of what happened and can give you better advise.
ill share it but these answers will definitely help me so try to just answer them with your best information and then I can tell you
Ok...
1. Not really, depends on the person and my kind of relationship with them. If I were to offer my friend let's say his name is Kyle, well anyway I would say something along the lines of "Hey Kyle, you can sit on my lap if you don't wanna stand." Or something like that.
2. I would if we're really close, in any other case it would make me look kinda thotty. Why? Well I can tell you that after a while your legs start
giving out.
3. He could if as I said we had that kind of trust.
4. The only difference with my female friends is how people would think of it rather than if a guy sat on my lap. First of all it's wouldn't be seen as thotty and secondly I have more trust with my friends that are females for obvious reasons.
Hope this could help!
how would it look toothy if you wrapped your arm around them?
thotty
Not really... If the guy's single and you're single it's not a big deal.
I would, but the type of friendship that I hold with most guys are filled with irony/humor. It's just my personality and who I attract 😂
what do you mean?
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
If our friendship is close enough, it could go either way; I may offer, or he may just sit, and either will be fine. Same for my female friends.
why would either be fine? He doesn't need your permission to sit on your lap?
also how would the situations differ where you would offer or he just sits?
Would you wrap your arms around his waist (hug him) if he sat on you and why?
it wouldn't matter to me if he sat in my lap or not. I don't let gender get in the way of anything when I'm friends with someone.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
have guy friends sat on your lap before?
I would probably offer it, but I wouldn't wrap my arms around his waist. even though I said that gender doesn't matter to me wrapping my arms around may make things look different like its more than a relationship. he could sit in my lap without asking. it wouldn't be different with a female, I guess for the reason of gender not mattering to me. and no I haven't had a situation happen yet where a guy friend has had to sit in my lap
I wouldn’t think it were gay or weird, a few of my guy friends have sat on my lap before.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
have some of these guy friends sat on your lap more than once and in what situations?
Do you have a specific experience in minds?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
I would definitely offer haha. It’s kind of natural to have them just sit on my lap since we do that so often that I just don’t see it as anything weird.
I’ve offered quite a few times to my guy and girl friends. And yes I wrap my arms around their waist only because it feels like such a natural area to put your hand when you’re in that situation.
And yes he could sit on my lap without asking. This is literally like a daily thing anyway haha. They do it even if there are chairs they can sit on.
Honestly it happens all the time. At school, sleep overs at a friend, camping and so on.
First thing that came to mind was when I went camping with a bunch of my friends. My best friend, hadleigh, came and sat on my lap while I want on one of those camping plans chairs. Well the weight of him and I split the material and my ass was on the ground😂
And it wouldn’t be different if it were my girlfriends since we do that all the time anyway🤷🏼♀️
When you offer what do you normally say?
Will your guy or girlfriends sit on your lap more often? Do you sit on them as well?
I see haha has Hadliegh sat on your lap before? Did he just come up to you why did he sit on your lap on the camping trip?
At school do you remember any situations or specific experiences? Where does it normally occur at school?
and a sleepover?
also just message me it will be easier... but I loved your answer I'm doing a project on human social interactions so you are helping me a lot
I’d normally just straight up ask if they want to sit on my lap and then it’s followed with me patting my lap from them to sit. Honestly both sit girl and guy friends sit on my lap equally as much. And yes I sit on my friends laps as well.
Hadleigh has sat on my lap plenty of times before. He just can with his hot chocolate in his hand and sat on my lap because I had a blanket over me with a water bottle so I guess he sat on my lap for that reason since it was very cold that morning.
We have a common room at school where we have couches and all that. All my friends will sit on the couches and sometimes there isn’t enough space if we’re all there so friends sit on each other. Or in class if the boys are wanting to have a laugh about it.
At sleep overs my girlfriends and sometimes sit on each other’s laps in the pool or on the kitchen chairs.
ok I see this is making more sense to me... I really like that you and your friends are that open to each other
In the common room have guy friends sat on your lap as well a girl-friends? Has Hadliegh done it there? Will guys sit on other girl's lap's too in the friend group?
SO I guess its common in your friend group/school for guys to sit on girls?
When they do it because there are chairs they can sit on why whats the reasoning then?
You said in class guys do it because they want to have a laugh about it? What do you mean by this?
lol and in the pool how would that work?
I like your answers by the way and I love hearing about your stories
Yeah I’m sure all my guy friends have sat on my lap. Hadleigh has sat on my lap in the common room. And yes my other guy friends have sat on my girl friends laps. We all have sat on each other at some point haha.
It’s not just the guys. We’re all just really laid back and comfortable with each other so sitting on one another is nothing.
They do it because yeah. Sometimes there isn’t space to sit but my friend Hadleigh and I do it because we’re just really close and we’re comfortable that way I guess?
And they do it in class to have a laugh about it because they’ll act like they’ll die from no attention or to make others who do like one of us, jealous.
My girl friends and I usually sit on the steps in the pool and talk/gossip and so usually always sit on my friend Sage’s lap🤷🏼♀️
Interesting I see here are my last set on questions you have helped me a lot if I Have more I will ask if that is alright with you?
Out of all your friends who has sat on your lap the most?
When Hadleigh sits on your lap do you wrap your arms around his waist?
Why in the pool do you sit on Sage's lap?
Has Hadleigh sat on Sage's lap as well?
Also when you offer you said you ask and then you pat your lap for them to sit? Why pat your lap at all what does it mean? If you just asked wouldn't they get the point?
Will you pat your lap for Hadleigh to sit on your lap?
Is Hadleigh bigger than you?
Does Hadleigh sit on you more or do you sit on him more?
with your girlfriends have larger girlfriends (in height and weight) sat on you as well and if so who?
In the common room will multiple people be sitting on each other's laps usually?
When you said to make each other jealous in class what do you mean? The guys are making each other jealous but how?
and what do you mean for attention they will sit on you for attention but why? Has hadleigh done it for attention before?
When hadleigh sat on your lap at the camping trip what were you wearing and he? Were all the seats taken and was anyone else sitting on someone then? Did you offer to him that time? how long did he sit on you for? And how did you make him warmer?
Was it comfortable for you when he sat on you?
Hadleigh has sat on my lap more mainly because we do spend a lot of time together. And yes I put my arms around his waist, mainly because it’s the only place I can put them. I sit on sages lap because I just do? And I pat my lap but it’s just an indication that I want them to sit on my lap. And yes hadleigh is bigger than me. I don’t know who sits in who more hahaha I don’t count.
I have no fat friends and a my friend and I are around the same height, there not much difference.
Not to make each other jealous but in my class, there’s a few boys that aren’t in our friend circle who do like myself and my friends so my guys friends like to make those guys jealous and no I don’t know why they do that. Boy banter I guess? And they make the other guys jealous because the guys that like us obviously wish they were close to us like how our guy friends are.
At the camping ground I was in sweat pants and a hoodie and so was hadleigh. And no the seats weren’t all taken. He sat on me because I had a blanket and a water bottle so I was warm and he obv wanted to be warm too. And yes I asked him if he wanted to since it was cold. He sat on me for probably over an hour. And I find when people, bigger guys in particular, I like the heavier weight on me, it’s comfortable.
so has Hadleigh sat on Sage's lap as well?
In the common room will multiple people be sitting on each other's laps usually?
Has hadleigh done it for sat on your lap for attention before or to male someone else jealous? In that situation would you offer or no when they are trying to make other people jealous?
Will you pat your lap for Hadleigh to sit on your lap? At the camping grounds did you pat your lap?
I don’t know what Hadleigh and sage do.
And no, just my friend group do that, we’re just really comfortable with each other that way.
I don’t like making people jealous so I pro wouldn’t entertain people making others jealous which Hadleigh knows. I pat my lap for people or animals to sit on in general.
And yes at the camping grounds I did pat my leg.
Haha why so interested?
I'm doing a social interactions project so you ar giving me great answers
Sarah can you give me another time Hadleigh has sat on your lap that you remember like in the common room or anywhere?
Ohhh
Well there’s been time where we’ve had friend get togethers, birthday parties and so on where he’s sat on my lap. Once in the car too but I didn’t want to sit on his lap because I wasn’t keen on feeling his thing on me haha...
can you tell me those times specifically it will help me
If it's for a short period of time and we're really good friends I would. It'd be funny hahaha
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Why would it be funny? Is it funny because he needs a seat? Would it still be funny if it was a girl-friend in this situation instead?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
I'd offer first. If it was someone I was reeeally close with I might wrap my arm around him, but only for a couple seconds. I guess it's funny because normally it's a girl sitting on a guy's lap. If it was a girl in my lap it'd just normal to be. I wouldn't want him to sit on my lap without asking just so that I have a warning.
I see what would you say in your offer to you really close guy friend? How do you think you would act in that situation?
What if he asked you what would you say then? Would you make a big deal about or think that he was weird for asking you? what would you think?
"Come sit on my lap!" while laughing I guess. Everyone knows Im very touchy feely so no one would be surprised, and I wouldn't feel ashamed, even if they said no.
If he was a close friend and he asked, it wouldn't be weird, but if he wasn't then it will be
if he asked would you let him?
If he was a close friend yes
since you are touchy feely would you pull them to your lap if you saw there was no seat?
I don't think I'd pull them onto my lap
It's not weird at all but personally I wouldn't let the guy sit on my lap. Most of my guy friends are tall so obviously they are heavier than me I'm short and I don't want to get crushed. Maybe I'd scoot over and share my seat with him or even just sit on his lap.
Or be mean and leave him standing haha
It depends on how close your guys are. Personally, I would feel embarrassed if he sat on my lap. But I don't see that it would be gay. I was actually seeing this guy a few years ago and he sat on my lap. I was still embarrassed even though I was into him. It also depends on what you are comfortable with.
Yes, out of generosity. But my mind would also go crazy cuz it's a pretty intimate thing to do.
would you offer your lap first if you saw him without a seat and what would you say in your offer? Would you wrap your arms around his waist and why?
Could he sit on your lap without asking you?
Would it be different if it was a close girlfriend in this situation and why?
Irdk it'd depend on the person. If I knew it was a friend who couldn't be into me (cuz of their sexuality) I'd be a lot more open to offer. If not, I'd probably ask them if they wanted to beforehand whether they were a guy or a girl. I think I'd rap my arms around them if we were really close and if I were feeling cuddly and affectionate towards them.
when you said "if not you would ask them beforehand" what do you mean? Isn't that offering?
Yes, exactly. I'd offer if I knew it were an option and if it would be apropriate to ask their opinion first. I don't know