Am I wrong for distancing myself from my mother who embarrasses me in public? (Page 2)

[goaded]

It's understandable, but really what you should do is talk to her and tell her how you feel (preferably sprinkled with "I love you"'s and hugs). Set boundaries, but do it in a positive way.

[amaranthblossom]

You should never feel forced into doing something you are uncomfortable with, even if it's a family member.

[DDpsy]

Depends on what she does. In my experience when kids say that they are mostly just brats that said not knowing the specifics you may be justified. Also not going out in public with your parrents does not mean you can't be close.

[Fuentes]

Nah ur in your mid 20's if she can't stop purposley embarrassing you in public then it's her own issue haha

[anametouse]

I totally get it I have to deal with a family member who doesn't understand boundaries and its hella annoying

[Streak]

If that means you take better care of yourself then, no. But dont cut her off and love her unconditionally

[JohnAlaska43]

Get her back lol.
Have a chat with her tell her no more. Tell her its not cool and will not go with her if she keeps it up.

[AngelLily]

Your not wrong at all don't let her make you feel bad you have every valid reason to want to distance yourself from her bull.

[MrNameless]

Have you ever talked to her about this? You need to talk about how you feel

[Nigjt]

Not if she is doing that to u.
U should be Makeing her think about the way she makes u feel an take in to note how it hurts ur feelings also she is ur Mother after all.
God Bless

[Therisinghero12]

My saying is that you only ever feel embarrassed when you chose to, cause no one else gives a shiz xD

[Anonymous]

You give no examples of how she embarrasses you, so there is no way to assess and give suggestions.

[PrinceOfAljazeera]

yeah ur wrong, she carried you for 9 months, have respect for your mother woman!

[God-vs-Satan]

It is the wise thing to do if she does it intentionally.

[Anonymous]

No your ok. my mom embaresses me too. she has muscular dystrophy and is in a wheelchair. I hate going places with her

[Fuentes]

Bruh LOL

[Anonymous]

She shouldn't guilt you. And being a girl you should have time with her and hang

[bamesjond0069]

Why don't you just embarrass her back?

[Bigfoot324]

Its payback for embarrassing her when you were a kid 😂. My mom does it to me too. Just do pull yourself to far away, because one day you won't have her anymore...

[FGaines18]

... an innocent unknowing kid?

[Lauren-green]

How does she purposely embarrass you?

[Constantina87]

She doesn’t respect you why stay?