Do You Think Hardships In Life Happen To Show You Who Your "Real" Friends Are Versus "Fair weather" Friends?
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Hardships happen to everyone at one point or another in their lives, but experiencing hardship as a day too day lifestyle choice, is the price a nice guy has too pay for allowing someone who takes advantage of them, to keep any of thier original teeth, or thier head, because they DON'T recognize the need too m make an example of someone and known certain terms as the best protection they can give themselves and wayward bullies.
My mom couldn't understand my need to put three boys in the hospital in 6th grade after she giving me all this great advice on how to get them to like me and become buddies with them because no one is going to say no to being your friend just ask them because people just do things for no reason. I totally agree with Mom on that point people don't just do things for no reason these boys that were beating the s*** out of me everyday they had a perfectly good reason for doing things they did and the reason was they were sick f**** in need of a serious attitude adjustment by means of anatomical displacement of facial and dental generalities and appendages. Asking them how their day was going and telling them that they're closed or shoes were cool wasn't getting it done wasn't getting a message across that I didn't enjoy getting a s*** kicked out of me with a baseball bat but something about having your jaw wired shut and you know the reset and temporary loss of vision and your left eye tend to give you a fresh perspective on how to look at things like kicking some boy around and play yard because you can assuming that every time you come at him as a group that he's going to continue to defend himself against a group, instead of picking out the ringleader, in making a bloody mess of his face and ribs while taking his licks in the back of the head and on quarters five boys two cowardly to pull their crap on him one-on-one.
I love too much I care way too much about people and I cared way too much about the continued survival of these boys not being within the realm of possibility unless I f***** him up so bad that they had to recognize a wake-up call because I was concerned for their welfare and didn't🧐want🤔to🙄have😒to😠 kill😡them😤all👺before👹period😑
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Boys and pacifist exist for a reason to publicly get their asses kicked and rearrange is often as possible by nice guys with short fuses who have learned to folly and devastation of allowing someone to think that they can push and push and push until they push that button that wrong button, that is pressing against that last nerve that requires someone to die to end the pain of being someone's doormat, b****, punk, Patsy, toilet, pariah of the month designated a****** of whenever they f****** feel like itdesignated a******
This guy thought it was funny when a Buick sent a guy under, his girlfriend over, it's good and wheels, and thinks continuing to play games is a good idea. He doesn't see any downside the steering things up and sending this loser
to rattle his cage and antagonize someone he knows nothing about, not able too comprehend the concept of a percieved collar being incapable of feeling intimidation, fear, or anything other than the irrepressible need to drive to Vegas, say hi, and relocate this bafoon to a three feet deep hole in the caliche soil of his new residence, out in the desert where he can be dug up by Coyotes and skull f***** to their hearts delight, should this a****** see the wrong thing on the wrong day when his perceived collar reveals himself to be a seriously pissed off tiger being held by the tail of a Dead Pig Walking, because he is too morally bankrupt too be anything else, too stupid too know what will happen if he wants a go at him bad enough to make a move, his last move on planet earth 🌍😡⚠️ If you want to protect idiots from themselves, kicking the s*** out of them is the best expression of tough while there is because if you don't seriously hurt them, than "YOU" or SOMEONE ELSE, IS GOING TO END UP KILLING THEM, WITHOUT THE BENIFIT OF THAT 🥾👆 THE KEESTER 🕳️, 😠💕🤙😘WAKE⏰UP😳🥺😬🤯🤫🤙💁📞⚠️ So this is how people who are too stupid to live, and too evil or morally bankrupt, to be allowed to live, Become your lifelong pet projects in an attempt to convert them from pieces of s*** into something that passes for human being as your way of justifying not composting them the way they deserve to be. I got my work cut out for me having to try to convert human trash into human beings as a means of justifying not turning them in the fertilizer the way they their actions demand of me. It's not that they deserve a second chance, it's that I do, by demonstrating mercy and humane treatment to those, who don't have any entitlement, or comprehension, of what these concepts mean.
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I think that can be a part of it I also think that it can be used as a teaching tool to teach yourself and to teach others it's not the act of what just happened it's how you handle it that truly matters that's the first thing the second thing is you're 100% right to see true friends are I'm sure I can get 10 more scenarios out of this for everything bad that we think happens to us do become a good thing at the end of it let me see it for what it really is so when something bad happens to us is how we handle it's how we grow from it or with it
I do believe hardships reveal who your fake and real friends are. I only got to see the strength of someone's love, friendship and loyalty when I went through the saddest and hardest times in my life.
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Well they certainly do just that! Whether they happen for that reason I would say it could be one of the many. Also to show us our strength, to show us humility, to bolster our perseverance.
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So sad my mom when she was alive had all these fair weather friends
the one friend would only visit my mom when she was going over to see
this other friend of hers who would come visit the neighbor would come
over and talk to my mom for a little while then that was it she left
then this one friend would only visit my mom once in the blue moon
and this one woman passed away 4 years after my mom that was it
but her son started dating my sister and moved in with my sister
then this son sadly committed crimes and went to jail for ages - 771 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.
Yes. (Nice song from TL, too).
I wouldn't say that is the ONLY reason we have "hardships". Everything we experience can be a learning experience, but that really wasn't your question.
I WILL say that the hardships we can't handle (and do need some help with) WILL separate the wheat from the chaff as far as solid "I've got your six" friendships go, yes. And I always try to be a bit more available for several neighbors and friends because - through no fault of their own- are in less than perfect circumstances, to help them through their hardships. - 553 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.
I choose to take wisdom from Buddhists who say that hardships come from change. As humans we like the status quo and many would be happy without progress. We tend to expect things to repeat their known patterns based on our past experiences.
But we all face change and temptation and to your implied point we often see who our real friends are because they support us even when the changes are very negative. Often that support is passive rather than active as they want us to grow from challenge but they are still there in spirit. -
I think that in hardships these days no friends will be left at all since all of them are liars and clowns with fake faces 🤡 not even a spouse will resist and back u up, in contrary they choose to divorce & HIT THE ROAD bye bye 👋🏻
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If that was the purpose of hardships then we would have only hardships, all our lives.
Hard times are part of this life. They are opportunities for greatness. The more hard times we beat, the greater we become. - 347 opinions shared on Family & Friends topic.
I think the hardships, and the blessings, happen for no reason at all.
The question is what can we learn from them. -
Hmmm. No I think hardships happen because of our inability to build a working version of Harry Potter's Magic Wand.
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Definitely! When you need them, a True Friend is there, without question! Just like you would be, for them!
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No, it just happens to show you the real friends if you're going to seek their help
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Hardships happen in life, regardless of who your friends are.
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Your friends certainly stick by when things get hard.
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Sometimes they do just that but there is no hocus pocus involved.
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Yeah for sure. There have been a couple times when I got in trouble and you really find out who is there for you.
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I think it is a definite learning experience. You learn a lot of things when you are subjected to hardships
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no. shit just happens. that's life. but you should learn the shit that happens to the best of your ability. be it that you learn from it or somehow improve or whatever.
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Your good timers are only around for the good times
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No, I don't think your own personal hardships happen to you just to separate out your real friends from the fakers. You don't "need" hardships for that to occur.
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Totally, and gets more and more obvious with age. Not that I don't make new friends, but the 8-10 people I've continued to be friends with for most my life, I know are just as important as family.
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I'm thankful for every hardship I've dealt with in my life because it toughened me up and built character. It also showed me who was actually as loyal to me as I was them... my dad and my aunt. The rest left me sorely disappointed in life.
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It reinforces my view that the only person you can ever truly rely on is yourself
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