or this year is not necessary? Last year I gave a madam and his husband a Christmas gift (sugar free cookies and some house small ornament) IT was my first gift to these people for this reason. Last year their son died at 47 years old during a bike routine Sunday. He died of a heart attack, he was a sports guy and the coroner found fat in his arteries but he was not obese at all in fact he exercise often with his bike. He followed the Keto diet. Anyway since this mother her son death was very devastated. I sent her and her husband a flower sympathy arrangement which they both thanked me a lot. The reason I sent these people something was because I met his son for 5 years and we kinda "liked each other" we even had sex twice (the mother never knew about it obviously) bvut we never were a couple or in a relationship, something casual. For me it was also devastated his death I could not believe it. I was hoping to hang out with him for more time but well that could not happen. The mother never knew who I am or even knew I existed and I never met her personally, she found out I existed when she received my sympathy arrangement. Ever since taht 1st contact last year in July I had happen to from time to time get in touch with the guy smother and see how she had been. So in person I had seen her 2 times since last year. SO last year I sent her a Christmas gift for her and the hubby.
After her son death for the way she sent me audio messages it looks like she always is down and depressed (it is understandable of course), it seems for her it has been hard to overcome his last year death in July. SHe is not going to therapy to deal with that pain. One month ago her mom died too, she had a seizure. So next week I be seeing this lady again to grab coffee and chit chat but Im going to meet her along side another lady friend who this
guy knew for years, so it be 3 of us. I also met this lady friend for the first time last year after
After her son death for the way she sent me audio messages it looks like she always is down and depressed (it is understandable of course), it seems for her it has been hard to overcome his last year death in July. SHe is not going to therapy to deal with that pain. One month ago her mom died too, she had a seizure. So next week I be seeing this lady again to grab coffee and chit chat but Im going to meet her along side another lady friend who this
guy knew for years, so it be 3 of us. I also met this lady friend for the first time last year after
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the guy died. We already had met like 4 months ago for coffee time so this time one more time the 3 of us.
My question is do you think this year it be necessary to give this mom and her hubby a Christmas gift again or not necessasry this year. Last year was important beause I was gettng to know her for the first time and her son death was recent. I mean I dotn want the lady to expect me to give her a gift each year like it is an obligation just beause she was the mother of a guy I was
My question is do you think this year it be necessary to give this mom and her hubby a Christmas gift again or not necessasry this year. Last year was important beause I was gettng to know her for the first time and her son death was recent. I mean I dotn want the lady to expect me to give her a gift each year like it is an obligation just beause she was the mother of a guy I was
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attracted to, we were not even a couple. Also will it be necessary to give also the other lady friend a gift too? We had beacme good friends after the guy death but last year I did nto give her a gift (to the lady friend) beause we did not meet near Christmas, we met like 3 weeks before Christmas and had lunch together as our first ever person to person meeting.
