What would you do if you had a child and they came out to you as gay/lesbian? (Page 2)

[RuthlessAggression]

well i don't want kids, but, if i do, i would accept it. that's the RIGHT THING TO DO

[Scorpio_energy]

Well I am an ally so I would be really glad for my child whetever his sexuality was. Be openminded.

[marish01]

Is being gay genetic?

[Still-alive]

Is being straight genetic?

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

What? No. Of course not.

[Aerissa_Jade]

@marish01 Does it really matter if it is genetic or not?

There is some research that says alcoholics is genetic or pedophile leanings, we are not slaves to our genes... can still have freedom of choice, even if it is harder for those with those genes.

Genetic or not, people can choose to either be gay or not be, just like any other genetic related things. I have chosen to be heteroflexible even though I don't feel I was born that way.

[marish01]

@Aerissa_Jade 👍🏻👍🏻

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@Aerissa_Jade no they can't. Sexual orientation is not something you choose. You can't force yourself to be attracted to something.

[Aerissa_Jade]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 You can choose to ignore it and make another decision was my point. Just like how I can choose to be with a guy I find unattractive, I can't make myself be attracted to him but can just do it.

A gay person can just choose to go with someone they are not attracted to. It is still a choice to do that, just that they can override it with their brain and do something else, even if they do not want to.

There is a difference, unless your saying they are 100% slaves and have no freedom of choice.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@Aerissa_Jade sure we can do it. I am heterosexual, but I can chose to touch another guy. I will absolutely hate every single second and be traumatized for the rest of my life, but I can do it.

It's the same thing to them. Asking a lesbian to like men or a gay man to like women is like asking them to not enjoy sex, but to make it a tremendous torture.

[Aerissa_Jade]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 That's exactly what I mean, you see my point. It is still a choice and being an adult sucks, sometimes we have to make uncomfortable choices.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@Aerissa_Jade that is like asking you to be miserable for the rest of your life. And for what exactly? Why should they do that?

[marish01]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 but there are very very few lesbians in the world according to stats. Plus most lesbians have had sex with men.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

I don't know if you can say "most", but maybe you have information that I don't. Regardless, the ones that actually had sex with men either were are bi or they wanted to try and see if they liked. Probably saw it wasn't for them and that's why they became lesbians.

[marish01]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 but they did try.
Would you try men?

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Not at all! But that is me. I can assure you there are heterosexual people who have tried the gay sex.

[captain_voidwalker]

Not realy give much of a shit.

[Still-alive]

i have a feeling you would... :)

[captain_voidwalker]

Not realy what they do in the bedroom is none of my business and dosent effect me in the slightest.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'd still accept them

[constantine15]

I’d be very disappointed

[Still-alive]

how come?

[constantine15]

I’d hope to be a grandpa someday. Chances of them having children if they’re gay are very low.

[Still-alive]

they could adopt

[constantine15]

Yes, but id want one with my genetics

[JustinTheGreat]

I wouldn’t care, I’m gay myself

[Sirenboobzilla]

Love them regardless. And probably go shopping!

[TKasap]

I'd be fine with it! It should be their right.

[Luopio27]

I wouldn't give a dam. Their life, their choice.

[woman_2004]

their going to therapy.

[Still-alive]

even though its proven it doesn't work?

[Lycanthropic]

And you need to go to school.

They're*

[woman_2004]

i’ll send them to a mental
institution.

[Still-alive]

how come?

[MysteriousDarkness]

@woman_2004
Hate the homosexuals much?

[Still-alive]

@MysteriousDarkness im guessing this is some dude using an alt account tbh

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Still-alive
My reply wasn't to you

[Still-alive]

@MysteriousDarkness i know it wasn’t

[nisnaia]

Nothing would change really.

[Nikki1989]

I would be so happy.

[petitedollbabee]

I’d be relieved

[MountAverage]

Continue to be their parent like before.

[John_Doesnt]

We would pray the gay away, pray to Thor

[lovedejj_xo]

I wouldn’t fare its my child

[lovedejj_xo]

Care*

[BenedasAldias]

I would send him to a mental hospital.

[call_me_scar]

I'd probably say cool and go on with my day

[melanieeeB]

Nothing

[iamnash]

Honestly I wouldn’t csre

[Bluemax]

Say, "I love you."

[EnglishEuropean]

I'd lecture them about safe sex.

[dragoblack]

Be supportive. Adoption is always an option.

[Bismarck_96]

I'll just say cool and carry on with my activity

[Astarlessnightsky]

Nothing.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Call my sister.

[Liuz02]

Love them

[crmoore]

Nothing

[SmokinAces2000]

I wouldn’t care

[Zachgoat308]

I wouldn't care

[Silver158]

Wouldn't bother me.

[llorando]

Absolutely nothing.

[bootieclapper9000]

smack them up

[juliawright]

Wouldn’t care.

[spectrum66]

Not care