And keep the news to yourself or only to your intimate close family (siblings and just a few few few friends that is all). I mean like if they hide the fact they become a parent it looks like is like there is somethign wrong having a baby, dont you think?
There is a friend (not super close though but we know each other for about 6 years or so) he is currently like 46 years old. He and I became friends as we both belonged to a sports local team and we became kinda of good friends thoug, we share ride buses together when we had to go to train for the team, we shared team parties and social gatherings taht were from the team. We went to competitions together. We did not have like a bad relationship. He wqas very cared and loved by the sports team as he had a good hospitaliy always cooperate in many things, very helpful guy., but he was a very very very reserved guy, even if we know each other, he never shared with me about his life or family (like if sharing things of your family was something bad), the ony thing I knew from him was that his dad died many years ago, he had a sister and he took care of his mom, that is all I knew of him, he also never share if he was seeing someone or not, but he was always a bit of a playful, frisky tease guy with the women and he always made sex jokes but funny sex jokes to otehr people. He also never like to share when he went traveling to places like visiting the places or share how was the trip or somethinbg like that, also he kept it to himself.. If I knew about the trips he took was beause he post photos of trips he may had taken on his Whatassp status so I saw them, but still if I ask them about it, he did not like to share much about where he went either, super reserved and private the guy was.
Two years ago for those photos he posted I knew he travelled to Mexico for vacations, once he got back from that trip during sports trainign he told me he looooved mexico very much
